Online Courses & Workshops
For You and Your Relationships

Learn the transformative relational skills to build and sustain fulfilling connections from healthy self-esteem and boundaries to getting more of what you want.

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Start building more meaningful relationships today with our skill-building online courses from Terry Real.

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Art Of Relational Living

Start building more meaningful relationships today with our skill-building online courses from Terry Real.

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Real Self‑Esteem

Build a more loving relationship with yourself. Learn to stop proving or earning your worth and finally feel comfortable in your own skin.

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Building Better Boundaries

Learn what boundaries really are and how to build healthy boundaries that keep you protected and connected in your relationships.

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Relational Parenting

Learn how to set limits with compassion and effectively build your child’s self-esteem to raise compassionate, connected children.

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Love, Trauma, & Relationships

Terry joins with Thomas Hübl to help you harness the healing power of your close relationships to recover from…

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Staying in Love

A series of short 20–40 minute lessons on core relational skills to help you improve communication and deepen your connection.

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Watch our 3-hour workshops for insights on specific relationship challenges and tips to help you move forward.

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Unstuck

Discover the 3-step framework to finally end the painful patterns keeping you stuck in the same fights or cold distance.

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Modern Masculinity

Learn how to set limits with compassion and effectively build your child’s self-esteem to raise compassionate, connected children.

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Moving On From Betrayal

Discover the path to healing from the devastation of infidelity, rebuilding trust, and creating a stronger relationship.

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Should I Stay Or Should I Go?

Gain the insights and skills you need to decide whether your relationship is worth fighting for and if real change is possible.

Relationship Bootcamps

Join two-day intensive relationship skills workshops – for couples and individuals – facilitated by experienced RLT therapists. Offered online and in-person.

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How Our Courses Are Helping Others

The things I was taught in school were not practical and I felt stuck in my practice. I’m so grateful for the experiences I have had with the RLT training. I now see relationships in a way that finally makes sense to me and I have more confidence working with couples because I have something that is realistic and I believe works and more importantly my clients are able to grasp and practice.”

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— Jen K.

We’ve been together 30+ years so it’d be fair to wonder what would we possibly have to work on. My love-avoidant, grandiose man said this shifted our relationship to a deeper, more loving level; his love-dependent, grandiose wife agrees. The Boot Camp weekend opened up new ways to talk, to see ourselves and to love each other.”

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— Sarah P., Portland, OR

“It felt very profound and healing for me…

Terry made the concepts so clear and easy to understand and they really resonated with me. I appreciated his competence and his warmth. The five classes were life changing for me.”

Roseanna Zoubek

“The entire course was life changing… 

There is a path to health… it is beautiful to understand that grandiosity is not happiness. Very much a breakthrough in my own projections onto others. Such a deep experience of our shared humanity.

Dr. Sarah Martinez

Find a Therapist

If you’d like to take your work deeper, search our directory of fully-certified RLT therapists and coaches. Most practitioners work with both couples and individuals.

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