New Course with Terry Real

Learn To Confidently Take On,  Motivate,  and Guide Grandiose  Clients Into Loving Connection

How to confront narcissistic clients, build an alliance, and help them reconnect to themselves and those around them in Working With Grandiosity.

9.5 Continuing Ed Credit Hours Included
Upon successful completion of a short online assessment.

ACEP No. 7495

Relational Life Institute (RLI) has been approved by NBCC as an Approved Continuing Education Provider, ACEP No. 7495. Programs that do not qualify for NBCC credit are clearly identified. Relational Life Institute (RLI) is solely responsible for all aspects of the programs.

Grandiose people are not in pain, they’re in trouble. The people around them are in pain.

─── Terry Real

Here’s An Overview of Everything You Get In Working With Grandiosity

5 Pre-Recorded 90-minute Classes with Terry Real

3 Pre-Recorded Q&A Calls with Bonny Slim from the RLI Faculty

What You’ll Learn

In this course you’ll learn practical skills, interventions, and therapeutic stances to effectively work with grandiose clients and lead them into healthy connection.

Key topics you’ll explore:

When It Feels Good To Be Grandiose….. How Do You Motivate Narcissistic Clients To Change?

We’re often taught to handle grandiose clients with kid gloves—to be nice, to nurture them. But, unfortunately, nurture alone isn’t enough to motivate these clients to change.

As therapists, our job is to supply what’s deficient. So nurture is critical for shame-based clients… but when it comes to grandiosity, what’s deficient is empathy, accurate judgment, and accountability.

Grandiose clients need waking up to the impact of their behavior and confronted with the consequences of not doing the work. Leaning in and confronting a grandiosity can be terrifying, which is why so many shy away from it—even seasoned therapists.

But you can learn to do it artfully and confidently in this brand new course from Terry Real. Over 5 classes, you’ll learn the necessary strategies and interventions to effectively manage even the most grandiose clients, guiding them towards relationality and the joy of authentic connection.

Join Working With Grandiosity Today

Choose the payment option that best suits you. 

3 x Monthly Payments

$175

Single Payment

$495

Our Promise and Guarantee

We’re confident you’ll love Working With Men, but we offer a 100% money-back guarantee for your peace of mind. If, for whatever reason you’re not completely satisfied, please contact us at support@terryreal.com within 14 days of purchase and we’ll issue you a full refund, no questions asked.

Meet Your Teachers

Terry Real,

Creator of Relational Life Therapy

Terry Real, LICSW, is an internationally recognized family therapist, sought-after speaker, and bestselling author, who has transformed how we approach relationships.

He is the creator of Relational Life Therapy (RLT), a groundbreaking therapeutic approach that equips people with the essential relational skills to build and sustain authentic connections—to themselves, each other, and the planet as a whole.

The author of four books, Terry’s most recent is the New York Times bestseller, Us: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship, which guides readers toward deeper intimacy and fulfillment. Known as “the turnaround guy,” Terry is famous for his extraordinary ability to save couples on the brink of divorce. Through his esteemed training school, the Relational Life Institute, he has trained thousands of mental health practitioners in his RLT method to date. Terry is committed to relational empowerment, helping everyone develop the skills needed for meaningful, lasting relationships.

Bonny E. Slim,

LMFT in Private Practice

Based in West Hartford, Connecticut, Bonny began training in Relational Life Therapy in 2012, and has participated in most of the courses that Terry has offered since then.

She is a senior member of the RLI faculty, training other mental health professionals in the RLT model.

Through co-facilitating several Relational Bootcamps, Bonny discovered how transformative the group experience can be. Her favorite aspect of RLT is the awareness that practicing relational skills in our own lives is essential to be able to authentically share/teach these skills to others.

Frequently Asked Questions

Is this course live?

No—the live classes have concluded. You will gain access to all 5 pre-recorded classes with Terry Real and 3 supporting 60-minute Q&A pre-recorded calls with Bonny Slim to explore the course material in greater depth.

No—the live classes have concluded. You will gain access to all 5 pre-recorded classes with Terry Real and 3 supporting 60-minute Q&A pre-recorded calls with Bonny Slim to explore the course material in greater depth.

Yes—RLI offers 9.5 CE credit hours with successful completion of this course for a $40 fee. You must pass an Assessment to show learned knowledge of the course.

No—the live classes have concluded. You will gain access to all 5 pre-recorded classes with Terry Real and 3 supporting 60-minute Q&A pre-recorded calls with Bonny Slim to explore the course material in greater depth.

No—the live classes have concluded. You will gain access to all 5 pre-recorded classes with Terry Real and 3 supporting 60-minute Q&A pre-recorded calls with Bonny Slim to explore the course material in greater depth.

The Relational Life

Working With Grandiosity

Continuing Ed Details

Facilitated by Terry Real, LICSW

This course is approved for continuing education hours as described below.

NBCC (National Board of Certified Counsellors)

9.5 NBCC CE credit hours for Beginner Mental Health Professionals ($40 additional fee).
In this photo a seal logo with two crossed rings, with the writing "approved continuing education provider nbcc seal"

ACEP No. 7495 

Relational Life Institute (RLI) has been approved by NBCC as an Approved Continuing Education Provider, ACEP No. 7495. Programs that do not qualify for NBCC credit are clearly identified. Relational Life Institute (RLI) is solely responsible for all aspects of the programs. 

Target Audience

Social Workers, MFTs, Counselors, Substance Abuse Counselors, Nurses, and LMHCs, LMFT’s, Educators, Coaches, Chemical Dependency Counselors

Course Content Level

The course content is appropriate for beginner level clinicians.

Format:

Self-Paced Online Course

Course Description

Over 5 LIVE 90-minute classes with Terry Real, you will learn how to effectively address issues of grandiosity in your clients. You’ll discover a range of strategies and techniques to confront grandiose clients with the impact of their behaviors, build an alliance, motivate them to change, and guide them into connection—with themselves and those around them.

Learning Objectives:

At the completion of this course, participants can expect to:

  • Identify what’s deficient in grandiose clients and understand how you supply it as the therapist.
  • Identify strategies to confidently handle resistance, evasion, and verbal abuse.
  • Understand how to reconnect grandiose clients to themselves and those around them.

Throughout the course, you’ll gain deeper competency in and be able to:

Understand the origins of grandiosity and why it isn’t always a defense against shame.

Identify techniques to find leverage to motivate grandiose clients to engage in the therapy.

Explain why taking sides is critical when working with grandiosity—and understand how to do it.

Continuing Ed Credits Available: 9.5 NBCC credit hours ($40 fee)

CE Certificate Requirements:

Satisfactory Course Completion required:
  • Participants must have paid for this course, completed a course Evaluation, and passed the test (80% or higher grade) showing the material has been learned in order to receive a certificate
  • No partial credit is available
  • Failure to complete and submit these materials will result in forfeiture of CE credit for the entire course. No exceptions can be made.
If you have questions please contact support@terryreal.com for guidance.
It is the participant’s responsibility to check if their Board, state, organization is approved for these CE credit hours. There is no partial credit. No refunds will be given on CE purchases for failure to check state approval.

It is the participant’s responsibility to check if their Board, state, organization is approved for these Continuing Ed credit hours. There is no partial credit. No refunds will be given on CE purchases for failure to check state approval.

Cost

One-Time Payment

$495

3 Payments

3 x $175

$525 in total

Commercial Support Disclaimer

There is no conflict of interest for this program. 

Accommodations

If you need special accommodations or have questions, please contact us at support@terryreal.com 

Cancellation Policy

You may request a refund up to 2 days after purchase. Please contact support@terryreal.com if you wish to cancel your purchase.

Instructor’s Bios:

Terry Real, LICSW is the bestselling author of I Don’t Want to Talk About It, How Can I Get Through to You?, The New Rules of Marriage, and Us: Getting Past You & Me to Build a More Loving Relationship. He founded the Relational Life Institute, offering workshops for couples, individuals, and parents as well as a professional training program for clinicians. Terry has been called “the most innovative voice in thinking about and treating men and their relationships in the world today.”

Please Note:

Licensing Boards change regulations often and while we attempt to stay abreast of their most recent changes, if you have questions or concerns about this course meeting your specific board’s approval, we recommend you contact your board directly to obtain a ruling.

Contact information:

ACEP Administrator & Operations Director for Relational Life Institute (RLI), Lisa Sullivan follows: 291 Nahanton Street, Newton, MA 02459; 

617-861-3030 support@terryreal.com www.relationallife.com 

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