Relational Life Institute (RLI) has been approved by NBCC as an Approved Continuing Education Provider, ACEP No. 7495. Programs that do not qualify for NBCC credit are clearly identified. Relational Life Institute (RLI) is solely responsible for all aspects of the programs.
Join renowned therapist and NY Times bestselling author Terry Real as he works with one couple over the course of 6 sessions — all pre-recorded, unedited, and streamed weekly. Each session is followed by a LIVE Q&A with Terry, where you’ll unpack what happened, explore the RLT tools and interventions he used, and ask him your questions directly to deepen your understanding.
As you know, couples therapy is complex, and this isn’t the first time Terry’s worked with our couple! In Week 1, Terry will walk you through a recap of their initial work together in 2023 — and you’ll receive instant access to those original 8 sessions as soon as you enroll.
Join renowned therapist and NY Times bestselling author Terry Real as he works with one couple over the course of 6 sessions — all pre-recorded, unedited, and streamed weekly. Each session is followed by a LIVE Q&A with Terry, where you’ll unpack what happened, explore the RLT tools and interventions he used, and ask him your questions directly to deepen your understanding.
As you know, couples therapy is complex, and this isn’t the first time Terry’s worked with our couple! In Week 1, Terry will walk you through a recap of their initial work together in 2023 — and you’ll receive instant access to those original 8 sessions as soon as you enroll.
This is your chance to witness the full arc of therapy unfold — from initial reconnection, to rupture, and ultimately, to true intimacy — and discover the RLT tools behind the transformation.
Each call includes:
Watch the full course of the couple’s original sessions from 2023 (includes recorded Q&A with Terry). Available immediately in your private learning platform as soon as you join
Refer back to the sessions whenever you need to via your private learning platform.
Relational Life Institute (RLI) has been approved by NBCC as an Approved Continuing Education Provider, ACEP No. 7495. Programs that do not qualify for NBCC credit are clearly identified. Relational Life Institute (RLI) is solely responsible for all aspects of the programs.
Terry Real first worked with our couple in 2023 across 8 sessions. A couple with two young children, who were on the brink of separation:
A wife who felt deeply alone in the marriage, carrying the burden of parenting.
A husband who struggled to balance the demands of a high-pressure job and family life.
Over those 8 sessions, what started as deep disconnection became joy and renewal, until…
Terry Real is giving you an all-access pass to a full course of real-time therapy sessions (with LIVE Q&A). You’ll observe him work in-depth with one couple, using his RLT method.
The format is as follows:
A recap of the original 8 sessions with our couple from 2023, followed by Q&A with Terry.
Therapy session: Class begins with a stream of Terry’s session with our couple (this is pre-recorded but unedited, so you’ll see everything in real-time).
Immediately after the session ends, you’ll join Terry for Q&A (roughly 30 mins). He’ll highlight particular aspects of the session, open the floor for your questions, and take you deeper into his thinking — why he did what he did and the RLT tools and interventions he used.
will give you a thorough understanding of the RLT model, how it translates in the therapy room, and — most importantly — a clear idea of how to use these techniques across the full arc of couples therapy.
Here’s what they have to say about observing Terry…
Each call includes:
Watch the full course of the couple’s original sessions from 2023 (includes recorded Q&A with Terry). Available immediately in your private learning platform as soon as you join
Refer back to the sessions whenever you need to via your private learning platform.
Choose the payment option that best suits you.
100% Money-Back Guarantee
We’re confident you’ll enjoy Sessions Over Time, but we offer a 100% money-back guarantee for your peace of mind. If, for whatever reason you’re not completely satisfied, please contact us at support@terryreal.com within 14 days after purchase or 48 hours from the first live call and we’ll issue you a full refund, no questions asked.
If you’re enrolled in the RLT Certification, this course is included. You will be automatically added to the course and receive an email confirmation with your Zoom link.
If you’re not part of the certification and would like to learn more, we invite you to complete the inquiry form.
If you’re RLT-certified and have joined the official RLT Alumni Membership, we will have emailed you a special link to claim your 30% discount.
If you aren’t yet a member, you can join here. If you haven’t received your email, please email support@terryreal.com.
Terry Real, LICSW, is an internationally recognized family therapist, sought-after speaker, and bestselling author, who has transformed how we approach relationships.
He is the creator of Relational Life Therapy (RLT), a groundbreaking therapeutic approach that equips people with the essential relational skills to build and sustain authentic connections—to themselves, each other, and the planet as a whole.
The author of four books, Terry’s most recent is the New York Times bestseller, Us: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship, which guides readers toward deeper intimacy and fulfillment.
Known as “the turnaround guy,” Terry is famous for his extraordinary ability to save couples on the brink of divorce. Through his esteemed training school, the Relational Life Institute, he has trained thousands of mental health practitioners in his RLT method to date.
Terry is committed to relational empowerment, helping everyone develop the skills needed for meaningful, lasting relationships.
Yes — each session is recorded and you will receive instant access to the session recordings so far so you can catch up.
The calls take place online over Zoom on the following dates and times:
Thursday, May 15 Thursday, May 22 Thursday, May 29 Thursday, June 5 Thursday, June 12 Thursday, June 19 Thursday, June 26 | 12–1:30pm ET 12–1:30pm ET 12–1:45pm ET 12–1:45pm ET 12–1:45pm ET 12–1:30pm ET 12–1:30pm ET |
Don’t worry if you can’t make all of the live dates, you will receive lifetime access to the recordings to watch at a time that suits you.
We understand your schedule is demanding, and you may be unable to make each call live. That’s why we record each session so you can watch it back at your convenience. All recordings will be stored in your private learning platform, the RLT Hub, which you will be given access to as soon as you sign up.
No – we appreciate the time commitment to watch the initial sessions. We hope you’ll manage to watch some, but it is not compulsory. Your first live call with Terry will be a review of the original sessions. Terry will recap where they were, the work he did with them, and where they ended up. From week two, you will go into the second series of six sessions.
The calls take place online via Zoom. You will receive your Zoom link in your confirmation email when you sign up and again 24 hours before each call (it is the same Zoom link to join each time).
The price is $395 per person. If you purchased the original 2023 RLT Sessions Over Time, you are eligible to upgrade to this version for only $95. Please check your email for instructions from us on how to do this. Alternatively, if you think you are eligible, please contact support@terryreal.com and they will be able to verify.
If you are enrolled in the RLT Certification, this course is included and you will be automatically enrolled. If you have joined our Alumni Membership, you qualify for 30% off. Please check your emails for details and if you have any issues, reach out to support@terryreal.com.
11.25 CEs are available to purchase for an additional $40 for professionals who attend all 7 calls live and in full. Please be aware this purchase is separate from your registration fee and will be offered only after the seventh and final call. For more information on CEs please go here.
Yes! This course is included in the RLT Certification — our most comprehensive training in the RLT model. The certification includes in-depth, hands-on practical training to elevate your skills as a couples therapist or relational coach. You’ll also receive a listing on our website upon successful completion. We invite you to complete the inquiry form to receive more information.
Relational Life Therapy (RLT) combines the most effective techniques from multiple therapies to create a state-of-the-art, integrated method to powerfully heal relationships. RLT breaks many of the rules of traditional therapy to go deep quickly and help clients make rapid and significant changes.
Using a range of powerful diagnostic and transformative tools, RLT helps people to first reconnect to themselves — their feelings, needs, and desires — to build a stronger, more intimate connection with their partner.
This is a professional training and not suitable for the general public. For help on improving your personal relationships, we recommend exploring The Art of Relational Living — our online course that will guide you step-by-step through the relational skills to build an extraordinary relationship.
The 30% alumni discount is available to RLT certified practitioners who have joined our official Alumni Membership. If you’re not yet a member, please learn more about the benefits and join here. If you’re already a member, we have sent an email to you with the subject: [NEW COURSE] RLT Sessions Over Time.
A limited number of partial scholarships are available for those with financial need. Please email us at support@terryreal.com with a brief outline of the following: your financial ability, your unique situation or challenge you are facing, and how you plan to use your learnings from this course (2-3 sentences max).
We’re confident you’ll love RLT Sessions Over Time, but we offer a 100% money-back guarantee for your peace of mind. If, for whatever reason you’re not completely satisfied, please contact us at support@terryreal.com within 48 hours of the first live call and we’ll issue you a full refund, no questions asked.
The Relational Life Institute is pleased to offer:
The Relationship Bootcamp Facilitation Training
Relational Life Institute (RLI) has been approved by NBCC as an Approved Continuing Education Provider, ACEP No. 7495. Programs that do not qualify for NBCC credit are clearly identified. Relational Life Institute (RLI) is solely responsible for all aspects of the programs.
ACEP No. 7495
Format: A three-day LIVE training facilitated by Desirae Ysasi, LPC-S, Julie Rudiger, LMFT, Anna Sterk, LMFT, and Terry Real, LICSW
Location: Regent’s University London, Inner Cir, London NW1 4NS, United Kingdom
Continuing Education credits offered: 19.5 credit hours.
At the completion of this course, all participants will be invited by email to purchase the 19.5 CE credits for a $40 fee. To receive a certificate, you must attend the full course. There is no partial credit, attendance will be taken.
Content:
This is an Advanced training program for RLT Certified Clinicians to learn to teach and facilitate their own Essential Skills Workshops. Over the course of this 3-day training, Terry and the faculty of the Relational Life Institute will teach participants the skills and techniques required to become workshop facilitators themselves. Participants will learn how to engage the audience, speak with authority, compassion, and explain the core principals of RLT.
Learning Objectives: At the completion of this course, participants can expect to:
Throughout the course, you’ll learn:
Target Audience: Social Workers, MFTs, Counselors, Substance Abuse Counselors, Nurses, and LMHCs, LMFT’s, Educators, Coaches, Chemical Dependency Counselors
Course Content Level: The course content is appropriate for Advanced level clinicians.
Cost: $2,750
Course Dates & Hours:
October 23, 2025, from 9am to 5pm
October 24, 2025, from 9am to 5pm
October 25, 2025, from 9am to 5pm
TO REGISTER: Please visit this site for registration:
https://relationallife.com/london-2025-facilitator-training/
Cancellation Policy:
We know sometimes plans can change so you’re protected by a 100% money-back guarantee until September 22, 2025. Please contact us at support@terryreal.com before September 22, 2025, and we will refund you. Any cancellations after this date will not be eligible for refunds.
If you need special accommodations or have questions, please contact us at support@terryreal.com
FAQ’s
How do I receive the Zoom link?
The Zoom link is emailed to you from ZOOM when you register for the course. If you do not receive the link, please contact us at support@terryreal.com
Should the name you register with match your Zoom name?
Yes, your first and last both names must be entered on your registration and then displayed on the screen during all classes. Please do not use nicknames, or employee ID numbers or log into Zoom using a co-worker or family member’s Zoom Account as this will post you as ABSENT.
When will I get my certificate?
Certificates will be available within 21 business days of the event. Certificates will be emailed to the email address you used to register for the course.
Please contact our Support team if you have any questions support@terryreal.com
Instructor’s Bios:
Desirae Ysasi, LPC-S is a Licensed Professional Counselor – Supervisor with nearly two decades of experience, specializing in relationship counseling. Serving the San Antonio community since 2006, she works exclusively with couples in romantic relationships, folks in non-traditional romantic relationship structures (ethical nonmonogamy), and adults seeking to improve family dynamics. Desirae became a Certified Relational Life Therapist in 2018 trained directly by Terry Real, the founder of Relational Life Therapy (RLT). She joined the faculty of the Relational Life Institute in 2022 and now serves as Director of Training & Certification, overseeing the global certification program. She has been the owner of Ysasi Counseling since 2014 and in the fall of 2024, Desirae opened Relational Life Texas, a virtual therapy group practice focused on RLT, providing relationship therapy across Texas.
Anna Sterk, LMFT:
Anna began training in RLT with Terry Real in 2012 and has been providing therapy, Essential Skills Bootcamps, consultation, and supervision through the RLT model for years; Anna was thrilled to have the opportunity to teach and train practitioners as faculty with the Relational Life Institute (RLI) beginning in 2022. Anna’s style as a therapist, teacher, and supervisor is to balance compassion and collaboration with direct feedback. Anna’s roots are in systems theory and cultural studies, which was a natural fit for the RLT model, and supports her goal of teaching the skills to navigate long term relationships and support relational living for both clients and students alike. As RLI Faculty, Anna teaches the Practicum courses and Small Group Mentoring for RLT certification students, along with special topic courses.
Julie Rudiger, LCSW has been a Licensed Clinical Social Worker for the last 30 years. In 2002, Julie opened her private practice, where she has helped hundreds of individuals and couples over the last two decades. Her professional journey took a transformative turn in 2008 when she began training with Terry Real, the founder of Relational Life Therapy (RLT). Julie has since used RLT to guide clients in discovering self-esteem, healing early wounds, and fostering deeper, more authentic relationships. A faculty member at the Relational Life Institute since 2022, Julie now trains other therapists and leads community workshops, including Men’s Groups and Relationship Skills Bootcamps. Additionally, she is trained in EMDR, ACT, DBT, Gestalt, and the Enneagram.
Terry Real, LICSW: Terry Real is the bestselling author of I Don’t Want to Talk About It: Overcoming the Secret Legacy of Male Depression, the straight-talking How Can I Get Through to You? Reconnecting Men and Women, The New Rules of Marriage: What You Need to Make Love Work and most recently Us: Getting Past You & Me to Build a More Loving Relationship just debuted in June 2022. Terry founded the Relational Life Institute, offering workshops for couples, individuals, and parents as well as a professional training program for clinicians. Terry’s work, with its rigorous commonsense approach, speaks to both men and women. A proponent of “full-throttle marriage,” Terry has been called “the most innovative voice in thinking about and treating men and their relationships in the world today.”
CONFLICT of Interest: There is no known conflict of interest or commercial support for this event.
Grievance Procedure:
If a student believes they have been discriminated against, they can submit a written complaint that includes their name, address, phone number, location, date, and a detailed description of the issue. If a student with a disability disagrees with the accommodation provided or has any other grievances, they can schedule a meeting to discuss and attempt to find a solution together. If the student is still not satisfied with the accommodation after further discussion, they can contact the Operations Director for
the Relational Life Institute (RLI), Lisa Sullivan, via phone, email, or mail. If the grievance cannot be resolved, the complainant will be advised to contact the appropriate Ethics Committee or Licensing Board. The Operations Director will keep all grievances and their resolutions confidential in locked files.
A copy of this Grievance Procedure is available upon request.
Contact information: ACEP Administrator & Operations Director for Relational Life Institute (RLI), Lisa Sullivanfollows: 291 Nahanton Street, Newton, MA 02459; 617-861-3030 lisa@relationallife.com
The Relational Life Institute is pleased to offer:
An Introduction to Relational Life Therapy
Relational Life Institute (RLI) has been approved by NBCC as an Approved Continuing Education Provider, ACEP No. 7495. Programs that do not qualify for NBCC credit are clearly identified. Relational Life Institute (RLI) is solely responsible for all aspects of the programs.
ACEP No. 7495
Format: A one-day LIVE training facilitated by Desirae Ysasi, LPC-S, RLI Director of Faculty
Location: Regent’s University London, Inner Cir, London NW1 4NS, United Kingdom
Continuing Education credits offered: 5.5 credit hours.
At the completion of this course, all participants will be invited by email to purchase the 5.5 CE credits for a $40 fee. To receive a certificate, you must attend the full course. There is no partial credit, attendance will be taken.
Content: If you’re new to the Relational Life Therapy (RLT) model – or just want to revisit the foundations ahead of your training with 2-Day Training with Terry Real. Join RLI’s Director of Training Desirae Ysasi for a pre-workshop training the day before Terry Real’s course begin.
You’ll explore the theory behind RLT, along with some of the effective tools and strategies that move couples toward meaningful change.
Learning Objectives: At the completion of this course, participants can expect to:
Target Audience: Social Workers, MFTs, Counselors, Substance Abuse Counselors, Nurses, and LMHCs, LMFT’s, Educators, Coaches, Chemical Dependency Counselors
Course Content Level: The course content is appropriate for Beginner level clinicians.
Cost:
Oct 27th one-day training with Desirae ONLY: £170 early bird until July 1 (then £195)
Oct 28-29th two-day training with Terry ONLY: £375 early bird until July 1 (then £425)
BOTH events (3 full days of training): £545 early bird until July 1 (then £620)
Course Dates & Hours: Monday, October 27, 2025, from 9am to 4pm
TO REGISTER: Please visit: https://relationallife.com/london-2025-trainings
Cancellation Policy:
We know sometimes plans can change so you’re protected by a 100% money-back guarantee until September 26, 2025. Please contact us at support@terryreal.com before September 26, 2025, and we will refund you. Any cancellations after this date will not be eligible for refunds.
If you need special accommodations or have questions, please contact us at support@terryreal.com
Please contact our Support team if you have any questions support@terryreal.com
Instructor’s Bio:
Desirae Ysasi, LPC-S is a Licensed Professional Counselor – Supervisor with nearly two decades of experience, specializing in relationship counseling. Serving the San Antonio community since 2006, she works exclusively with couples in romantic relationships, folks in non-traditional romantic relationship structures (ethical nonmonogamy), and adults seeking to improve family dynamics. Desirae became a Certified Relational Life Therapist in 2018 trained directly by Terry Real, the founder of Relational Life Therapy (RLT). She joined the faculty of the Relational Life Institute in 2022 and now serves as Director of Training & Certification, overseeing the global certification program. She has been the owner of Ysasi Counseling since 2014 and in the fall of 2024, Desirae opened Relational Life Texas, a virtual therapy group practice focused on RLT, providing relationship therapy across Texas.
CONFLICT of Interest: There is no known conflict of interest or commercial support for this event.
Grievance Procedure:
If a student believes they have been discriminated against, they can submit a written complaint that includes their name, address, phone number, location, date, and a detailed description of the issue. If a student with a disability disagrees with the accommodation provided or has any other grievances, they can schedule a meeting to discuss and attempt to find a solution together. If the student is still not satisfied with the accommodation after further discussion, they can contact the Operations Director for
the Relational Life Institute (RLI), Lisa Sullivan, via phone, email, or mail. If the grievance cannot be resolved, the complainant will be advised to contact the appropriate Ethics Committee or Licensing Board. The Operations Director will keep all grievances and their resolutions confidential in locked files.
A copy of this Grievance Procedure is available upon request.
Contact information: ACEP Administrator & Operations Director for Relational Life Institute (RLI), Lisa Sullivan follows: 291 Nahanton Street, Newton, MA 02459; 617-861-3030 lisa@relationallife.com
The Relational Life Institute is pleased to offer:
Terry Real’s 2-Day Couples Therapist Training:
Getting Started with Relational Life Therapy
Relational Life Institute (RLI) has been approved by NBCC as an Approved Continuing Education Provider, ACEP No. 7495. Programs that do not qualify for NBCC credit are clearly identified. Relational Life Institute (RLI) is solely responsible for all aspects of the programs.
ACEP No. 7495
Format: A two-day LIVE training facilitated by Terry Real, LICSW
Location: Regent’s University London, Inner Cir, London NW1 4NS, United Kingdom
Continuing Education credits offered: 13 credit hours.
At the completion of this course, all participants will be invited by email to purchase the 13 CE credits for a $40 fee. To receive a certificate, you must attend the full course. There is no partial credit, attendance will be taken.
Content:
Join Terry Real in London for two days of theory, observation, and Q&A to strengthen your work with couples. This is a rare chance to observe his couples therapy sessions in person and learn the theory and techniques behind his RLT model. You’ll learn precisely what makes RLT so effective as you watch Terry conduct life-changing work with one couple across 3-4 full-length sessions — offering a unique look at how he applies RLT tools and interventions to spark the remarkable turnarounds he’s known for.
Additionally, you have the unique opportunity to engage in candid Q&A with Terry throughout the two days as you discuss what happened – and the RLT tools behind it – in greater depth.
Learning Objectives: At the completion of this course, participants can expect to:
Target Audience: Social Workers, MFTs, Counselors, Substance Abuse Counselors, Nurses, and LMHCs, LMFT’s, Educators, Coaches, Chemical Dependency Counselors
Course Content Level: The course content is appropriate for Intermediate level clinicians.
Cost:
Oct 27th one-day training with Desirae ONLY: £170 early bird until July 1 (then £195)
Oct 28-29th two-day training with Terry ONLY: £375 early bird until July 1 (then £425)
BOTH events (3 full days of training): £545 early bird until July 1 (then £620)
Course Dates & Hours:
October 28, 2025, from 9am to 5pm
October 29, 2025, from 9am to 5pm
TO REGISTER: Please visit: https://relationallife.com/london-2025-trainings
Cancellation Policy:
We know sometimes plans can change so you’re protected by a 100% money-back guarantee until September 26, 2025. Please contact us at support@terryreal.com before September 26, 2025, and we will refund you. Any cancellations after this date will not be eligible for refunds.
If you need special accommodations or have questions, please contact us at support@terryreal.com
Please contact our Support team if you have any questions support@terryreal.com
Instructor’s Bio:
Terry Real, LICSW: Terry Real is the bestselling author of I Don’t Want to Talk About It: Overcoming the Secret Legacy of Male Depression, the straight-talking How Can I Get Through to You? Reconnecting Men and Women, The New Rules of Marriage: What You Need to Make Love Work and most recently Us: Getting Past You & Me to Build a More Loving Relationship just debuted in June 2022. Terry founded the Relational Life Institute, offering workshops for couples, individuals, and parents as well as a professional training program for clinicians. Terry’s work, with its rigorous commonsense approach, speaks to both men and women. A proponent of “full-throttle marriage,” Terry has been called “the most innovative voice in thinking about and treating men and their relationships in the world today.”
CONFLICT of Interest: There is no known conflict of interest or commercial support for this event.
Grievance Procedure:
If a student believes they have been discriminated against, they can submit a written complaint that includes their name, address, phone number, location, date, and a detailed description of the issue. If a student with a disability disagrees with the accommodation provided or has any other grievances, they can schedule a meeting to discuss and attempt to find a solution together. If the student is still not satisfied with the accommodation after further discussion, they can contact the Operations Director for
the Relational Life Institute (RLI), Lisa Sullivan, via phone, email, or mail. If the grievance cannot be resolved, the complainant will be advised to contact the appropriate Ethics Committee or Licensing Board. The Operations Director will keep all grievances and their resolutions confidential in locked files.
A copy of this Grievance Procedure is available upon request.
Contact information: ACEP Administrator & Operations Director for Relational Life Institute (RLI), Lisa Sullivan follows: 291 Nahanton Street, Newton, MA 02459; 617-861-3030 lisa@relationallife.com