Witness The Full Arc of RLT Couples Therapy
An Inside Look Into How a Leading
Therapist Guides One Couple Through the Minefield of Reconnection

Starts Thursday, May 15

Introducing RLT Sessions Over Time
Join renowned therapist and NY Times bestselling author Terry Real as he works with one couple over the course of 6 sessions — all pre-recorded, unedited, and streamed weekly. Each session is followed by a LIVE Q&A with Terry, where you’ll unpack what happened, explore the RLT tools and interventions he used, and ask him your questions directly to deepen your understanding.
As you know, couples therapy is complex, and this isn’t the first time Terry’s worked with our couple! In Week 1, Terry will walk you through a recap of their initial work together in 2023 — and you’ll receive instant access to those original 8 sessions as soon as you enroll.
Introducing RLT Sessions Over Time
Join renowned therapist and NY Times bestselling author Terry Real as he works with one couple over the course of 6 sessions — all pre-recorded, unedited, and streamed weekly. Each session is followed by a LIVE Q&A with Terry, where you’ll unpack what happened, explore the RLT tools and interventions he used, and ask him your questions directly to deepen your understanding.
As you know, couples therapy is complex, and this isn’t the first time Terry’s worked with our couple! In Week 1, Terry will walk you through a recap of their initial work together in 2023 — and you’ll receive instant access to those original 8 sessions as soon as you enroll.
This is your chance to witness the full arc of therapy unfold — from initial reconnection, to rupture, and ultimately, to true intimacy — and discover the RLT tools behind the transformation.


Access 14 Couples Therapy Sessions With Terry Real
Here’s Everything You Get Inside RLT Sessions Over Time
7 Weekly Training Calls With Terry Real
Each call includes:
- A stream of a pre-recorded, unedited therapy session
(Excl. week 1, which includes a recap of Terry’s original sessions with the same couple).
- Followed by a LIVE interactive Q&A with Terry
📌 Please note: All therapy sessions are pre-recorded.
Only the Q&A is live.
Instant Access to Terry’s Original 8 Sessions with the Same Couple
Watch the full course of the couple’s original sessions from 2023 (includes recorded Q&A with Terry). Available immediately in your private learning platform as soon as you join
Lifetime Access to the Call Recordings
Refer back to the sessions whenever you need to via your private learning platform.


10.5 CEs are available to purchase for a $40 fee if you attend all 7 classes live and in full.
Relational Life Institute (RLI) has been approved by NBCC as an Approved Continuing Education Provider, ACEP No. 7495. Programs that do not qualify for NBCC credit are clearly identified. Relational Life Institute (RLI)is solely responsible for all aspects of the programs.
You’ve Helped Them Reconnect Before. But Now They’re Separating…
What Do You Do?
Terry Real first worked with our couple in 2023 across 8 sessions. A couple with two young children, who were on the brink of separation:
A wife who felt deeply alone in the marriage, carrying the burden of parenting.
A husband who struggled to balance the demands of a high-pressure job and family life.
Over those 8 sessions, what started as deep disconnection became joy and renewal, until…
Can you help us?”
How Is The Course Structured?
Terry Real is giving you an all-access pass to a full course of real-time therapy sessions (with LIVE Q&A). You’ll observe him work in-depth with one couple, using his RLT method.
The format is as follows:
Class 1
A recap of the original 8 sessions with our couple from 2023, followed by Q&A with Terry.
Classes 2-7
Therapy session: Class begins with a stream of Terry’s session with our couple (this is pre-recorded but unedited, so you’ll see everything in real-time).
LIVE Q&A:
Immediately after the session ends, you’ll join Terry for Q&A (roughly 30 mins). He’ll highlight particular aspects of the session, open the floor for your questions, and take you deeper into his thinking — why he did what he did and the RLT tools and interventions he used.
This combination of observation and Q&A
will give you a thorough understanding of the RLT model, how it translates in the therapy room, and — most importantly — a clear idea of how to use these techniques across the full arc of couples therapy.
What You'll Learn
As you observe each session and spend time learning directly from Terry, you’ll discover how to address issues of:


Resentment


Parenting Imbalance


Betrayal


Avoidance


Grandiosity


Emotional Shutdown
- Quickly identify a couple’s dynamic and each partner’s relational stance
- Ask the right questions to get to the heart of a couple’s presenting problem.
- Empower a shame-based partner to find the motivation to engage a grandiose partner.
- How to directly and lovingly tell the truth to your clients in a way that builds trust.
- The exact tools and interventions to confront issues of grandiosity with skill.
- Honor each partner’s autonomy while holding them in connection.
- Guide a fractured couple back into true partnership, intimacy, and teamwork.
Who is It For?
RLT Sessions Over Time is suitable for:
- RLT therapists and coaches who want to strengthen their understanding of the method and learn from seeing Terry Real work across the full arc of therapy.
- Couples therapists who are looking for a fresh perspective and innovative tools to move the needle in even the most challenging cases.
- Mental health practitioners who are not currently working with couples but are curious to learn more about the RLT approach.






How Observing Terry’s Work Has Helped Your Colleagues
Here’s what they have to say about observing Terry…






Here’s Everything You Get Inside RLT Sessions Over Time
Access 14 Couples Therapy Sessions With Terry Real
Here’s Everything You Get Inside RLT Sessions Over Time
7 Weekly Training Calls With Terry Real
Each call includes:
- A stream of a pre-recorded, unedited therapy session
(Excl. week 1, which includes a recap of Terry’s original sessions with the same couple).
- Followed by a LIVE interactive Q&A with Terry
📌 Please note: All therapy sessions are pre-recorded.
Only the Q&A is live.
Instant Access to Terry’s Original 8 Sessions with the Same Couple
Watch the full course of the couple’s original sessions from 2023 (includes recorded Q&A with Terry). Available immediately in your private learning platform as soon as you join
Lifetime Access to the Call Recordings
Refer back to the sessions whenever you need to via your private learning platform.
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We’re confident you’ll enjoy Working With Infidelity, but we offer a 100% money-back guarantee for your peace of mind. If, for whatever reason you’re not completely satisfied, please contact us at support@terryreal.com within 14 days after purchase and we’ll issue you a full refund, no questions asked.
Did You Know RLT Sessions Over Time is…
FREE for RLT Certification Students
If you’re enrolled in the RLT Certification, this course is included. You will be automatically added to the course and receive an email confirmation with your Zoom link.
If you’re not part of the certification and would like to learn more, we invite you to complete the inquiry form.
30% Off For RLT Alumni Members
If you’re RLT-certified and have joined the official RLT Alumni Membership, we will have emailed you a special link to claim your 30% discount.
If you aren’t yet a member, you can join here. If you haven’t received your email, please email support@terryreal.com.
About Terry Real


About Terry Real
Terry Real, LICSW, is an internationally recognized family therapist, sought-after speaker, and bestselling author, who has transformed how we approach relationships.
He is the creator of Relational Life Therapy (RLT), a groundbreaking therapeutic approach that equips people with the essential relational skills to build and sustain authentic connections—to themselves, each other, and the planet as a whole.
The author of four books, Terry’s most recent is the New York Times bestseller, Us: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship, which guides readers toward deeper intimacy and fulfillment.
Known as “the turnaround guy,” Terry is famous for his extraordinary ability to save couples on the brink of divorce. Through his esteemed training school, the Relational Life Institute, he has trained thousands of mental health practitioners in his RLT method to date.
Terry is committed to relational empowerment, helping everyone develop the skills needed for meaningful, lasting relationships.
Frequently Asked Questions
Can I join the course once the live calls have started?
Yes — each session is recorded and you will receive instant access to the session recordings so far so you can catch up.
When are the live calls?
The calls take place online over Zoom on the following dates and times:
Thursday, May 15 Thursday, May 22 Thursday, May 29 Thursday, June 5 Thursday, June 12 Thursday, June 19 Thursday, June 26 | 12–1:30pm ET 12–1:30pm ET 12–1:30pm ET 12–1:30pm ET 12–1:45pm ET 12–1:45pm ET 12–1:45pm ET |
Don’t worry if you can’t make all of the live dates, you will receive lifetime access to the recordings to watch at a time that suits you.
What if I can’t make all the calls?
We understand your schedule is demanding, and you may be unable to make each call live. That’s why we record each session so you can watch it back at your convenience. All recordings will be stored in your private learning platform, the RLT Hub, which you will be given access to as soon as you sign up.
Do I need to watch all 8 original sessions before the live calls start?
No – we appreciate the time commitment to watch the initial sessions. We hope you’ll manage to watch some, but it is not compulsory. Your first live call with Terry will be a review of the original sessions. Terry will recap where they were, the work he did with them, and where they ended up. From week two, you will go into the second series of six sessions.
How do I join the calls?
The calls take place online via Zoom. You will receive your Zoom link in your confirmation email when you sign up and again 24 hours before each call (it is the same Zoom link to join each time).
How much does it cost?
The price is $395 per person. If you purchased the original 2023 RLT Sessions Over Time, you are eligible to upgrade to this version for only $95. Please check your email for instructions from us on how to do this. Alternatively, if you think you are eligible, please contact support@terryreal.com and they will be able to verify.
If you are enrolled in the RLT Certification, this course is included and you will be automatically enrolled. If you have joined our Alumni Membership, you qualify for 30% off. Please check your emails for details and if you have any issues, reach out to support@terryreal.com.
Is this eligible for Continuing Education credits? (CEs)?
10.5 CEs are available to purchase for an additional $40 for professionals who attend all 7 calls live and in full. Please be aware this purchase is separate from your registration fee and will be offered only after the seventh and final call. For more information on CEs please go here.
Is this included in the RLT Certification?
Yes! This course is included in the RLT Certification — our most comprehensive training in the RLT model. The certification includes in-depth, hands-on practical training to elevate your skills as a couples therapist or relational coach. You’ll also receive a listing on our website upon successful completion. We invite you to complete the inquiry form to receive more information.
What is Relational Life Therapy?
Relational Life Therapy (RLT) combines the most effective techniques from multiple therapies to create a state-of-the-art, integrated method to powerfully heal relationships. RLT breaks many of the rules of traditional therapy to go deep quickly and help clients make rapid and significant changes.
Using a range of powerful diagnostic and transformative tools, RLT helps people to first reconnect to themselves — their feelings, needs, and desires — to build a stronger, more intimate connection with their partner.
I’m not a mental health professional. Can I join?
This is a professional training and not suitable for the general public. For help on improving your personal relationships, we recommend exploring The Art of Relational Living — our online course that will guide you step-by-step through the relational skills to build an extraordinary relationship.
How do I claim the Alumni discount?
The 30% alumni discount is available to RLT certified practitioners who have joined our official Alumni Membership. If you’re not yet a member, please learn more about the benefits and join here. If you’re already a member, we have sent an email to you with the subject: [NEW COURSE] RLT Sessions Over Time.
Are scholarships available?
A limited number of partial scholarships are available for those with financial need. Please email us at support@terryreal.com with a brief outline of the following: your financial ability, your unique situation or challenge you are facing, and how you plan to use your learnings from this course (2-3 sentences max).
What is your money-back guarantee?
We’re confident you’ll love RLT Sessions Over Time, but we offer a 100% money-back guarantee for your peace of mind. If, for whatever reason you’re not completely satisfied, please contact us at support@terryreal.com within 48 hours of the first live call and we’ll issue you a full refund, no questions asked.