Join Terry Real for a Transformative 5-month Journey
Deepen Your Relational Skills to Repair, Cherish, and Nurture Your Relationships With the Us Advanced Workshop
Build on your amazing progress in the Us Workshop and advance your relational skills through LIVE lectures, therapy sessions, and Q&A to unlock new levels of closeness in your relationships.
- Deepen your understanding of the sophisticated RLT skills and learn how to apply them to enjoy healthy, fulfilling relationships.
- Receive therapy directly from Terry to heal your relationship as part of the workshop (for those who join as one of the 10 participating couples only).
- Observe the powerful therapy sessions and witness the profound breakthroughs you can achieve when you use them in your own relationships.
- Ask Terry questions about the skills and how to utilize them effectively, and share your own experiences, challenges, and breakthroughs with the group.
- Leave empowered with the essential skills you need to build deeply authentic, radically honest, and fiercely intimate relationships for life.
Workshop Dates
There will be 10 live workshop over 5 months from September 2022 to February 2023.
How much does the Advanced US Course cost?
Join as a Participating Couple
Receive a therapy session from Terry Real as part of the workshop.
$2,450
Join as an Observer
Observe the couples therapy and participate in the Q&A discussion.
$795
You Will Explore
Relational Mindfulness
Shifting From Your Adaptive Child to Wise Adult When Trauma-triggered
Helping Men Articulate Their Feelings
Your Feelings Haven’t Left You, You’ve Left Them
Practical skills to help men reconnect with their emotions. Helping them understand and identify which of the 7 primary emotions they’re feeling and how to share those feelings with their partner.
The Art of Soft (Loving) Power
How To Stand Up for Yourself and Cherish Your Partner in the Same Breath
Learn how to be respectfully assertive without aggression. Master the difference between “Don’t speak to me like that” and “I want to hear what you have to say. Could you say it differently so I can listen?”
The Repair Process
The Golden Question of Repair
Learn how to listen non-defensively, put objective reality and yourself aside and listen with compassionate curiosity to your partner. Explore the Golden Questions of Repair: “Is there anything I can say right now that will make you feel better?” and “How would you like me to be with you right now?”
Transmission/Receptive work
Daring To Take Yes for an Answer
As you begin to get what you want from your partner, learn to let go of skepticism and past grudges to open up to receptivity and progress.
Shifting From Complaint to Request
How to Shift From Attitude to Gratitude
Remember the reason you are speaking is to repair, not fight. Learn to shift your mindset from a negative past-focus toward future, positive outcomes.
The 3 Phases of Getting What You Want in Relationships
Celebrating the Glass 15 Percent Full
- Daring to rock the boat
- Teaching what you want
- Being encouraging not discouraging
How To Become Ongoing Partners in Health
Cherishing and Appreciating
Putting time and energy into nurturing your relationship, remembering why you love your partner and expressing it. Learn to cherish relationality itself and believe in the importance of connection.
Who Can Join The Us Advanced Workshop?
The Us Advanced Workshop are open to anyone—individuals and couples—looking to improve their relationships.
Only 10 spots are available to be one of the couples who will receive therapy from Terry in the live workshop. This is a unique, highly sought-after opportunity to work directly with Terry to address your biggest relationship challenges and reconnect with your partner.
(Please note: couples spaces are on a first-come, first-served basis, and you must be willing to receive therapy in front of the other workshop participants.)
Watch the lectures and therapy sessions and participate in the Q&A discussions.
See the powerful effects of the relational skills in action between real couples to help you apply them in your own relationships.
Join as a Participating Couple
Receive a therapy session from Terry Real as part of the workshop.
$2,450
Join as an Observer
Observe the couples therapy and participate in the Q&A discussion.
$795
Each workshop will take place online and follow roughly the same format:
- A lecture from Terry introducing and teaching you how to use a particular relational skill.
- LIVE therapy session between Terry and a participating couple in front of the group.
- Q&A to share observations, experiences, and ask Terry questions directly.
There will be 10 live workshop over 5 months from September 2022 to February 2023.
Full dates and times are below:
Join the Us Advanced Workshop
Master Sophisticated Relational Skills for Fiercely Intimate Relationships
Join as a Participating Couple
Receive a therapy session from Terry Real as part of the workshop.
$2,450
Join as an Observer
Observe the couples therapy and participate in the Q&A discussion.