Learn to Use Infidelity as a Catalyst for Deep Transformation — In Your Clients and Their Relationships

Get instant access to 5 x 90-minute classes with Terry Real.

Here’s Everything You Receive

5 x 90-MINUTE CLASS RECORDINGS WITH TERRY REAL

Each class focuses on a particular aspect of working with infidelity. You have lifetime access to the course, so you can refer back to it whenever you wish.

Class 1: RLT’s Unique Approach to Infidelity
Class 2: Helping the Hurt Partner Heal
Class 3: Accountability Without Shame
Class 4: Turning Crisis Into Transformation
Class 5: Rebuilding After the Storm

Plus these exciting bonuses:

RLT’s (Relationship Life Terry) Approach to Trauma

In this 5-part video series, Terry Real takes you deep into the RLT approach to healing trauma, from why we conduct inner child work in the couples context to how trauma operates in couples. 

Esther Perel on Infidelity: The State of Affairs

A 60-minute talk from psychotherapist and NYT bestselling author, Esther Perel, who doesn’t shy away from the opportunities infidelity can open up for a new relationship within an old one.

Learn a New Framework For Infidelity

Moving Clients From Shame & Punishment to Hope & Repair

50% of people come to couples therapy due to some form of infidelity. We see it in our offices frequently, yet it’s still an area that holds great doubt, uncertainty, and even fear for many therapists… Facing the devastating trauma, deep betrayal, and shattered trust in the aftermath of an affair is a particularly stirring issue for us. Many of us have been touched by infidelity personally—in our own relationships or as children.

Managing our own feelings and acting as a container for our clients’ emotions, while trying to constructively move them forward steep challenge.

But helping couples come back from an affair is also one of the most rewarding parts of couples therapy. 

It presents you with one of the biggest opportunities to bring about transformation—in each partner and the relationship as a whole. 

Too often, the focus is on restoring the old—often problematic—equilibrium. But the truth is, many couples manage to return to the old status quo on their own: two-thirds of couples survive infidelity… 

But in RLT, we strive for more.

We use the crisis of infidelity to make way for something completely new—a robust and healthy relationship where partners experience true intimacy like never before!

Join Terry Real, the creator of Relational Life Therapy (RLT), to discover a fresh approach to working with infidelity that moves beyond the traditional victim/perpetrator framework into one that builds hope and opportunity for real repair.

Throughout five 90-minute LIVE classes, Terry will teach you the exact RLT framework he has used to help thousands of couples come back from infidelity with a stronger, healthier relationship than before. 

Our job as therapists is to do our best to ensure couples move beyond just weathering the storm of infidelity. We need to see if we can use the crisis to take their relationship to a new level of maturity and development
- Terry Real

How the RLT Approach Will Elevate Your Work With Infidelity

Build Confidence

You’ll feel certain in your ability to offer your clients more than a return to their old reality.

You’ll feel assured that you can offer them something more: hope and optimism for a stronger, healthier relationship.

Gain Clarity

Equipped with the powerful RLT tools that Terry has used for 30 years to guide couples through the crisis, you’ll know exactly how to work with infidelity, harnessing it as a mechanism for dramatic and permanent transformation.

Feel Energized

It’s exhausting when you can’t help your clients the way you want to. But with the skills you’ll learn inside this course, you’ll feel reinvested in your work as you see the transformations unfold before you.
Our job as therapists is to do our best to ensure couples move beyond just weathering the storm of infidelity. We need to see if we can use the crisis to take their relationship to a new level of maturity and development
- Terry Real

What You’ll Learn

Who Should Take This Course?

This course is for you if you’re a therapist, coach, or mental health practitioner who wants to…

Key topics you’ll explore:

This course is part of the RLT Certification program?

About Terry Real,
the Creator of RLT

Terry Real, LICSW, is an internationally recognized family therapist, sought-after speaker, and bestselling author, who has transformed how we approach relationships. 

He is the creator of Relational Life Therapy (RLT), a groundbreaking therapeutic approach that equips people with the essential relational skills to build and sustain authentic connections—to themselves, each other, and the planet as a whole. 

The author of four books, Terry’s most recent is the New York Times bestseller, Us: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship, which guides readers toward deeper intimacy and fulfillment. Known as “the turnaround guy,” Terry is famous for his extraordinary ability to save couples on the brink of divorce. Through his esteemed training school, the Relational Life Institute, he has trained thousands of mental health practitioners in his RLT method to date.

Terry is committed to relational empowerment, helping everyone develop the skills needed for meaningful, lasting relationships.

What Others Say About Terry and RLT

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100% Money-Back GuaranteeWe’re confident you’ll enjoy Working With Infidelity, but we offer a 100% money-back guarantee for your peace of mind. If, for whatever reason you’re not completely satisfied, please contact us at support@terryreal.com within 14 days after purchase and we’ll issue you a full refund, no questions asked.

Frequently Asked Questions

Is this course pre-recorded?

Yes you receive instant access to all 5 90-minute classes with Terry Real as soon as you enroll. And with lifetime access, you can refer back to the material anytime you need.

While the course material is predominantly framed within the context of couples therapy, the theory and techniques may be useful for therapists working with individuals looking to heal from the hurt of past affairs or to break their patterns of infidelity.  

This course is designed for clinicians (therapists, coaches, and mental health practitioners) to provide them with the tools they need to get people through the crisis in a way that promotes growth. This course does not contain advice for couples on how to come back from infidelity. For specific help on how to build true intimacy in your personal relationships, we recommend Terry’s online course The Art of Relational Living.

We’re confident you’ll enjoy Working With Infidelity, but we offer a 100% money-back guarantee for your peace of mind. If, for whatever reason you’re not completely satisfied, please contact us at support@terryreal.com within 14 days after purchase and we’ll issue you a full refund, no questions asked.

Learn to Use Infidelity as a Catalyst for Deep Character and Relationship Transformation — In Your Clients and Their Relationships

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