RELATIONAL LIFE THERAPY

Level 3 Online Training With Terry Real

11 Continuing Ed Credit Hours Included upon successful completion of a short online assessment

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ACEP No. 7495 

Relational Life Institute (RLI) has been approved by NBCC as an Approved Continuing Education Provider, ACEP No. 7495. Programs that do not qualify for NBCC credit are clearly identified. Relational Life Institute (RLI) is solely responsible for all aspects of the programs. 

A Note From Terry

Welcome!

RLT Level 3 is finally here! The incredible faculty and I have put our hearts and souls into this training, and I’m thrilled to finally share it with you.

This is where you take your understanding of the RLT model to an even deeper level. You will strengthen your use of the RLT stances, including when and how to use them to get even more profound, faster results in your sessions.

During 3 LIVE calls, you will watch me work with a live volunteer couple, review stances and skills with video clips and demonstrations, and have the chance to ask me questions directly. You’ll also receive lifetime access to the call recordings (excluding the couple demo due to privacy reasons), so don’t worry if you can’t make the live dates.

You will also access 5 hours of pre-recorded training where you’ll explore the ecological perspective of RLT and refine your skills in working with some of the most difficult resistance that presents in therapy sessions, including grandiose women.

This training is exclusively for those who have completed both RLT Level 1 and 2. RLT Level 3 is for therapists and coaches looking to take their RLT understanding and application to the highest level—and it’s essential if you want to become an RLT certified therapist or practitioner and join our incredible referral network.

By the end of this training, you will:

See you on the first call.

Warmly,

Here’s Everything You Get in RLT Level 3

3 Recorded Calls With Terry Real

Over 5.5 hours together, Terry will discuss the nuances of RLT Phases 1 and 2, explore the RLT stances, and showcase the most important skills of Phase 3. You will review sections of sessions, with commentary from Terry on the particular stances and skills that he’s utilizing.

One Couple Demonstration

On the second live call, you will watch Terry work with a couple to witness how he uses the different stances.

5 Training Modules (Pre-recorded)

Explore topics including Family of Origin work, the RLT ecological perspective, and stances in greater depth to expand and refine your skills and cement your confidence in your abilities.

Lifetime Access to all Course Material

You’ll receive access to our private membership site on July 15 (two weeks prior to the live calls) where you can work through the pre-recorded elements and build connections with the faculty and your fellow students. After the live calls, you will also have lifetime access to the call recordings (excluding the couple demo for privacy reasons) to watch back as often as you wish.

Here’s What You’ll Learn

Module 1:

The RLT Ecological Perspective

Terry discusses the ecological and spiritual pillars of RLT and addresses questions such as “What is relationality?”, “What is intimacy?” and “What is self-esteem?”.

Module 2:

Highlights of Phase 1

Terry reviews circular questioning, mutual triggering, and kinds of leverage. He also discusses relational power, relational grief, and relational reckoning.

Module 3:

Family of Origin Work

Understand the trauma grid, rituals, and keeping spiritual company in greater depth, and learn to identify reacting and modeling behaviors.

Module 4:

The Third Phase of RLT

A discussion of the teaching of skills, with a focus on transmission-reception work. Relational jujitsu and the spiritual work required for true intimacy.

Module 5:

RLT Stances

Reinforce your learnings as we recap the RLT phases, and focus on using RLT stances to amplify progress and deal with resistance.

Here’s Everything in the RLT Level 3 Online Training:

Get Started With RLT Level 3 Today

Choose the single payment option or payment plan:

Pay Once

$497

Pay in 3 Installments

NOW 3 Easy Payments of

$187

RLT Level 3 forms part of the new Relational Life Therapy certification program which includes in-depth, hands-on practical training to elevate your skills as a couples therapist—you’ll also receive a listing on our website.

To enroll in the full certification program, complete the application form and our team will be in touch.

Frequently Asked Questions

Who is RLT Level 3 for?
The RLT Level 3 training is for therapists, coaches, and practitioners who have completed RLT levels 1 and 2 and are looking to take their understanding and use of the RLT model even deeper.

Yes, you must complete RLT level 2 before purchasing Level 3. You can get started straight away: click here to buy Level 1 and buy Level 2 here.

You will have lifetime access to all course materials, including the live call replays (but excluding the couple demo for privacy reasons). There is no time limit in which to watch them.
RLT Level 3 comprises 10.5 hours in total: 5 hours of pre-recorded training videos and 5.5 hours of live calls with Terry Real.
No, the cost of RLT Level 3 is included in the certification fee. Level 3 will be automatically added to your learning platform. If you have any problems accessing it, please reach out to institute@relationallife.com.

The RLT Certification is for therapists, coaches, and practitioners who already have experience working with clients and want to take their work with couples deeper. If you have already completed some training with us, your previous payments will be discounted from the certification fee. To transition to the certification, complete the application form, and someone from the team will be in touch to discuss your application.

The Relational Life

Level 3 Homestudy

Continuing Ed Details

Facilitated by Terry Real, LICSW

This course is approved for continuing education hours as described below.

NBCC (National Board of Certified Counsellors)

11 NBCC CE hours for Advanced Mental Health Professionals ($40 fee)
In this photo a seal logo with two crossed rings, with the writing "approved continuing education provider nbcc seal"

ACEP No. 7495 

Relational Life Institute (RLI) has been approved by NBCC as an Approved Continuing Education Provider, ACEP No. 7495. Programs that do not qualify for NBCC credit are clearly identified. Relational Life Institute (RLI) is solely responsible for all aspects of the programs. 

ICF (International Coaching Federation)

11 ICF CCE hours (7 Core Competency + 4 Resource Development)
ICF CCE
International Coaching Federation (ICF) has approved this program for 7 Core Competency hours and 4 Resource Development hours. (Resource Development includes training formerly called Personal Development, Business Development, or Other Skills and Tools.)

Target Audience

Social Workers, MFTs, Counselors, Substance Abuse Counselors, Nurses, and LMHCs, LMFT’s, Educators, Coaches, Chemical Dependency Counselors

Course Content Level

The course content is appropriate for advanced level clinicians.

Format:

Self-Paced Online Course

Course Description

This is an advanced training for RLT clinicians who have completed our Level 1 and Level 2 trainings. Terry guides participants through a combination of lecture, video presentation, discussion, role plays, and a previously recorded LIVE demonstration of RLT couples therapy, grounding theory in practice. You will observe and then practice the more advanced techniques of RLT—drilling down into how to empower the latent and reconnect the blatant—focusing on the art of therapeutic coaching and mentoring clients into relationality.

Learning Objectives:

At the completion of this course, participants can expect to:

  • Practice ways to increase skill in working with family of origin issues.
  • Construct empowering reframes.
  • Demonstrate blocking and repositioning.
  • Analyze and articulate the couple’s choreography, their dynamic (e.g. the more she pursues, the more he withdraws).
  • Integrate Attachment Theory into RLT.
  • Identify and work on your “edges” as an RLT therapist.
  • Interpret the tri-part system of the psyche: wise adult, adaptive child, wounded child.
  • Measure the neurobiological underpinnings of trauma adaptation and recovery.
  • Utilize their clients’ relationships as crucibles for their own transformation.
  • Explain to your clients how to use the relational map and tool kit, a relational technology, that has the power to deliver on our new romantic ambitions.

Throughout the course, you’ll gain deeper competency in and be able to:

Joining through the truth

What is relationality, what is self esteem?

What is real intimacy?

Triggering, types of leverage, relational reckoning

Taking a fixed position

Identifying reacting and modeling behaviors

Using skill transference, relational jujitsu

Constructing empowering reframes

RLT Stances, amplifying progress and dealing with resistance

Blocking and repositioning

Continuing Ed Credits Available: 11 NBCC or ICF credit hours ($40 fee)

CE Certificate Requirements:

Satisfactory Course Completion required:
  • Participants must have paid for this course and attended all five LIVE online sessions in full in order to receive a Continuing Education certificate.
  • No partial credit is available — partial attendance does not qualify for partial CE hours.
  • At the end of the final session you’ll receive an email inviting you to request your certificate. The certificate is free of charge.
  • Failure to attend all sessions will result in forfeiture of CE credit for the entire course. No exceptions can be made.
If you have questions please contact support@terryreal.com for guidance.
It is the participant’s responsibility to check if their Board, state, or organization is approved for these CE credit hours. There is no partial credit. No refunds will be given on CE purchases for failure to check state approval.

It is the participant’s responsibility to check if their Board, state, organization is approved for these Continuing Ed credit hours. There is no partial credit. No refunds will be given on CE purchases for failure to check state approval.

Cost

One-Time Payment

$397

3 Payments

3 x $187

$561 in total

Commercial Support Disclaimer

There is no conflict of interest for this program. 

Accommodations

If you need special accommodations or have questions, please contact us at support@terryreal.com 

Cancellation Policy

You may request a refund up to 2 days after purchase. Please contact support@terryreal.com if you wish to cancel your purchase.

Instructor’s Bios:

Terry Real, LICSW is the bestselling author of I Don’t Want to Talk About It, How Can I Get Through to You?, The New Rules of Marriage, and Us: Getting Past You & Me to Build a More Loving Relationship. He founded the Relational Life Institute, offering workshops for couples, individuals, and parents as well as a professional training program for clinicians. Terry has been called “the most innovative voice in thinking about and treating men and their relationships in the world today.”

Please Note:

Licensing Boards change regulations often and while we attempt to stay abreast of their most recent changes, if you have questions or concerns about this course meeting your specific board’s approval, we recommend you contact your board directly to obtain a ruling.

Contact information:

ACEP Administrator & Operations Director for Relational Life Institute (RLI), Lisa Sullivan follows: 291 Nahanton Street, Newton, MA 02459; 

617-861-3030 support@terryreal.com www.relationallife.com 

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