The Things I Used to Put Up With Have Become Unbearable… Have We Come to the End of the Road?
At midlife, so much is changing at once – your body, your thoughts, what you’re willing to accept. Join the live 3-hour workshop to discover why your relationship is feeling the strain now, and how you can use this crisis as an opportunity to build a partnership that works for who you’re becoming.
With Terry Real, Founder of Relational Life Therapy®, & Dr. Mindy Pelz, 2x New York Times Bestselling Author
🗓️LIVE Tuesday, October 27, 2026⏰12–3 PM ET
100% Money-Back Guarantee
Is It Menopause or Your Relationship? What If It's Both?
You used to be able to let things go. The dishes stacking up in the sink, the way your partner half-listens when you’re talking – none of it got under your skin quite like this.
Now a wet towel left on the floor can send you from calm to furious in a flash. Afterward, the turmoil sets in: Where did that come from? Who even was that? Am I losing my mind?
What if the rage isn’t actually confusion. What if it’s clarity?
You're seeing years of keeping the peace, carrying the load, and swallowing what you needed – and some days you look at the person you've built a life with and a thought you never expected rises: I don’t know if I can do this anymore.
And when your partner reaches for you, part of you pulls away. You still love them. You just can’t remember the last time you wanted to be touched.
Meanwhile, your partner is just as lost, convinced that nothing they do is right anymore.
If any of this sounds familiar, you’re far from alone. The divorce rate for adults over 50 doubled between 1990 and 2010*, and the message you hear everywhere is the same: you’ve outgrown this – just leave.
But what if staying miserable and walking away aren't your only two choices?
That’s the conversation Terry Real and Dr. Mindy Pelz are opening in this live 3-hour workshop. You’ll discover what’s really changing – in you and between you – and how to start reinventing a relationship that fits who you’re becoming.
What If This Isn't the End of Your Relationship – But an Opportunity to Build Something Better?
As long as you’re stuck asking whether it’s your hormones or your partner, you’ll keep landing on the same two answers: fix yourself, or leave.
So much of what’s out there only looks at half the picture. One side tells you to treat the symptoms and you’ll calm down. The other tells you that your relationship isn’t enough anymore and it’s time to go.
There’s truth on both sides:
Midlife brings a powerful neurochemical shift – and with it, many women find they can no longer swallow what they’ve swallowed for years. That’s not you becoming difficult. It’s you seeing clearly.
At the same time, the relationship you have was built for an earlier version of you, with unspoken rules about who accommodates, who smooths things over, and who goes quiet to avoid a fight. Those rules don’t fit anymore – for either of you.
You don’t have to choose between your voice and your relationship. When you understand what’s changing in you and what’s no longer working between you, you finally have something you can work on – together.
What if this is a chance to reinvent your relationship rather than leave it?
And that reinvention can start on October 27.
Join the LIVE Workshop on Tuesday, October 27
Don’t Leave It – Reinvent It
Learn what’s really going on – in your body, your mind, and your relationship – and the concrete next step you can take immediately to build a partnership that works for who you’re becoming.
Guided by Terry Real and Dr. Mindy Pelz | With Q&A | Lifetime Recording Access
100% Money-Back Guarantee
What You’ll Learn
Understand what's changing in you
what the midlife neurochemical shift means for how you think, feel, and react, so you can stop wondering whether you’re losing your mind.
Help your partner understand it too
language that helps the person you love see who you’re becoming and listen with new ears, without it landing as an excuse or an attack.
Break the cycle of fights that go nowhere
why the old ways of handling conflict have stopped working, and an invaluable tool to hit pause before things escalate.
Turn resentment into requests
find what you’re really asking for underneath the complaints that have built up, and voice them in a way your partner can actually hear.
Leave with your reinvention plan
a concrete next step for your relationship, and an honest sense of when it’s time to bring in outside support.
Here's Everything You Get When You Join
The LIVE 3-hour workshop with Terry Real and Dr. Mindy Pelz
Tuesday, October 27, 12–3 PM ET, online, with a short break.
Live Q&A
time set aside for questions from the live audience, in a supportive group of people navigating the same season of life.
A seat for your partner
one ticket covers you both. Watch together live, or share the recording later.
Lifetime access to the recording
available within 48 hours, so you can watch at your own pace, as many times as you like.
100% money-back guarantee
within 48 hours of the live workshop, no questions asked.
All of it for just $47.
This Workshop Is for You If…
Small things set you off in a way they never used to – being asked 'What's for dinner?' like it's never once crossed their mind, the sound of your partner breathing just a fraction too heavily, and suddenly you find yourself furious at someone you love.
You've lain awake asking – Is this me, or is it us? – and you're not sure you'd trust the answer either way.
You're done carrying more than your share – after years of biting your tongue, part of you wonders whether leaving would be easier than one more disappointing conversation.
Physical intimacy has started to feel like one more demand – you still love your partner, you just don't know where your desire went, and they're starting to take it personally.
You're the partner trying to understand – it feels like nothing you do is right anymore, and you want to know what's really going on, and if there’s hope for your relationship.
You're a therapist or coach – who wants to see how a women's health expert and a couples therapist approach midlife relationships together.
Whether you’re married or partnered, together ten years or thirty, in perimenopause, menopause, or beyond, attending on your own or side by side with your partner, this workshop will help you step out of the choice between staying miserable and walking away – and build something better.
Try the Workshop Risk-Free
You’re Protected by a 100% Money-Back Guarantee
If the workshop isn’t what you hoped, just email us at support@terryreal.com within 48 hours of the live session. The deadline for refund requests is 3pm ET on Thursday, October 29, 2026.
Meet Your Teachers
Terry Real, Founder of Relational Life Therapy®
Terry Real has been married to a fellow therapist for more than 40 years, and he’ll be the first to tell you that two therapists still lose it with each other. In a heated moment, one of them will sometimes look at the other, smile, and say, “I just want to thank you for this opportunity to work on myself.”
He isn’t preaching from up high – he’s on the same path of relational recovery as us – just a few steps ahead.
Over more than four decades as a family therapist, Terry created Relational Life Therapy (RLT) – an approach known for helping couples who were ready to give up find their way back to each other. He is a New York Times bestselling author whose work has been featured on Oprah and in The New York Times, Vogue, and Goop.
Dr. Mindy Pelz, 2x New York Times Bestselling Author
Dr. Mindy Pelz is a 2x New York Times bestselling author and one of the leading voices in women’s health, hormones, and longevity. For more than two decades, she has translated complex science into practical tools that help women work with their bodies instead of fighting them.
Her books Fast Like a Girl, Eat Like a Girl, The Menopause Reset, and her newest release Age Like a Girl have helped millions of women understand their hormones, master metabolic flexibility, and navigate perimenopause and menopause with clarity and strength. In Age Like a Girl, Dr. Mindy reframes midlife as a powerful neurochemical shift, not a decline. She shows women how to use the hormonal changes of menopause to reclaim their voice, reset their health, and step into leadership, purpose, and authenticity.
Through her top-rated podcast Live Like a Girl with Dr. Mindy (formerly The Resetter Podcast), a YouTube channel with over 110 million views, and her global Reset Academy community, Dr. Mindy has built a movement rooted in one core belief: your body is not broken, it is brilliant. Her work blends neuroscience, functional nutrition, and lived experience to give women a roadmap for healing, confidence, and long-term vitality.
Based in San Jose, California, Dr. Mindy holds a Doctorate of Chiropractic and approaches health through the lens of the nervous system and the body’s innate ability to heal. Her mission is clear. When women understand their biology, they rise. Aging is not a fade into the background. It is a return to power.
What Others Say About Terry Real and Dr. Mindy Pelz
for Terry Real
“We really appreciate the experiences that renewed our marriage celebrating our 50th this year!
We participated in the RLT Staying in Love recorded program in September 2021 and also in the live Couples Experiential Workshop in January 2022. We have since been more patient and understanding with ourselves, each other, and even with other people in our lives.
Terry’s distinct philosophy of gentle honesty and mutual respect is a gem. What we learned about ourselves and each other has changed the way we think and live as a couple every day.”
John & Pamela
on Terry’s Staying in Love course and Couples Experiential
for Mindy Pelz
“Dr. Mindy and Terry Real!!!! What an amazing duo.
If you are new to the brilliance of Terry Real and Relational Life Therapy, stay curious about its possibility for a healthy perspective on relationships. The beliefs and practices that guide RLT turned our relationship around in one intensive weekend workshop. We walked away with deep respect and curiosity for each other and recommitted to deepening our connection. Instead of rehashing our same disagreements, we trust ourselves to navigate anything, including hormonal shifts during menopause, with our newfound awareness.”
Gayle S.
for Terry Real
“A 100% turn around on how I see my relationship and how I speak to my husband.
I was never taught how to be in an equal relationship and really needed to be told words/phrases on how to speak – i.e. to request rather than demand or direct. That was a game changer and easy once I was given words to use – I would have stumbled for months or years!”
Jan Moberg
for Mindy Pelz
“I’ve tuned into my body in a way I had never before.
“These past 6 months have been immensely transformational for me… I know how to hold and nourish myself the right way. What I have learned from this community is quite honestly priceless. The tools I have received from Dr. Mindy will be with me for a lifetime.”
Somya Desai
member of Reset Academy with Dr. Mindy Pelz
for Terry Real
“So liberating for me when I realize that I am the one who can change.
I loved Terry’s emphasis that you can only change yourself, not your partner. I now understand how my journey towards healthy self esteem has provided me with the perfect foundation to become a loving partner and to create the intimate relationship I have always desired.”
on Terry’s Getting What You Want From Your Relationship course
for Mindy Pelz
“I so LOVE my body and absolutely trust it as the incredible vehicle that it is.
I was born in 1945 and just turned 80! I spent so much time ignoring my body that there has been so much to undo and redo. My biggest gift and biggest challenge is learning about my body, learning deep and yet deeper listening. I have learned a lot over 3 years now… I’m in for another year with all of you beautiful people!”
member Reset Academy with Dr. Mindy Pelz for 3 years
Here's Everything You Get When You Join
The LIVE 3-hour workshop with Terry Real and Dr. Mindy Pelz
Tuesday, October 27, 12–3 PM ET, online, with a short break.
Live Q&A
time set aside for questions from the live audience, in a supportive group of people navigating the same season of life.
A seat for your partner
one ticket covers you both. Watch together live, or share the recording later.
Lifetime access to the recording
available within 48 hours, so you can watch at your own pace, as many times as you like.
100% money-back guarantee
within 48 hours of the live workshop, no questions asked.
All of it for just $47.
Frequently Asked Questions
When is the workshop, and how do I join?
The workshop takes place live online on Tuesday, October 27, 2026, 12–3 PM ET. After you register, you’ll receive an email with your link to join.
What if I can't make it live?
You’ll get lifetime access to the full recording within 48 hours of the live workshop, so you can watch whenever it suits you.
Can my partner join me on my ticket?
Yes – one registration covers you both. You can watch side by side live, or share the recording with them later, whenever the moment is right.
Can I attend alone – or without my partner knowing?
Yes – much of the workshop starts with what’s changing in you, and what you can do differently, whether or not your partner is ready to join you yet. You’ll have lifetime access to the recording if you ever want to share it with them.
Do I have to say anything or share anything personal?
No, there is no expectation to share. You’re welcome to simply watch and listen. Taking part in the Q&A is entirely optional.
Is this medical advice?
No. Dr. Mindy will share education about the changes many women experience at midlife, but this workshop isn’t a substitute for advice from your own doctor or healthcare provider. If you have questions about your symptoms or treatment, please speak with them.
Will this workshop save my relationship?
There are no guarantees. If you’re committed to making your relationship work, this workshop will help you understand what’s changing in you and introduce you to relational skills that will help you change how you communicate with your partner to invite a better response from them. However, this workshop is not intended as a substitute for therapy. If you’d like more support afterward, you can find Certified RLT therapists and coaches through our online directory.
I'm a therapist or coach. Is this for me?
You’re welcome to join, but please keep in mind this is a personal workshop, not a clinical training. The live Q&A is reserved for personal questions rather than clinical application.
What's your refund policy?
We offer a 100% money-back guarantee within 48 hours of the live workshop. Email support@terryreal.com by Thursday, October 29 at 3 PM ET if the workshop isn’t what you hoped.
I still have questions. Who can I speak to?
Please email us at support@terryreal.com and we’ll get back to you as soon as we can.
Ready to Build a Partnership That Works for Who You're Becoming?
Join the live workshop with Terry Real and Dr. Mindy Pelz
🗓️ Tuesday, October 27, 12–3 PM ET
Just $47