A two-day workshop in London hosted by the Relational Life Institute

A Two-Day Training in Relational Life Therapy with LIVE Couples Therapy Demonstrations by Terry Real

Join master couples therapist Terry Real for an in-person training as you watch him conduct life-changing work with one couple and discover the RLT techniques behind the transformation. 

🗓️ Monday 16th Tuesday 17th September, 2024
🕒 9am 5pm both days
📍 One Birdcage Walk, London, SW1H 9JJ

Discover the Progressive RLT Tools to Effectively Navigate the Complexities of Couples Therapy

Join Terry Real in London for two days of theory, observation, and Q&A to strengthen your work with couples. This is a rare chance to observe his couples therapy sessions in person and learn the theory and techniques behind his RLT model.

many of the rules of traditional couples therapy to produce dramatic, lasting change in relationships—and the people within them.

In this workshop, you’ll learn precisely what makes RLT so effective through theoretical lectures and lively Q&A with Terry. You’ll also see the remarkable results first-hand as you observe Terry working in-depth with one couple over three sessions. 

You’ll be introduced to seven powerful data-gathering tools to get to the heart of the problem, discover how to conduct deep trauma work in the partner’s presence, and teach your couples the relational skills they need to sustain intimacy for life. 

What You’ll Learn

RLT is known for producing deep, permanent change quickly. It transforms not just the relationship but the character of each partner.

As you observe Terry, you will learn how RLT works in three phases: 

Phase 1: Waking up the Client

Phase 2: Trauma Work in the Presence of One Another

Phase 3: Skill-Building (Strengthening the Best Part of You)

One of the wonderful aspects of RLT is that you cannot learn this work without experiencing the benefits for yourself. This training introduces you to the powerful techniques that will turn around your clients’ relationships and the essential relational skills to transform your own. 

How it Works

You’ll join Terry Real for two days of in-person training at One Birdcage Walk, London, SW1H 9JJ.

Each day will be a mix of couples session observation, Q&A, and theory: 

Day 1
AM: RLT theory and Q&A
PM:Couples intro, couples session 1, Q&A
Day 2
AM: Couples session 2, Q&A, some theory
PM: Couples session 3, Q&A, final pointers

Refreshments will be served upon arrival and at coffee breaks throughout the day including tea, coffee, and cakes. Guests will also be able to choose from a variety of delicious options for lunch, included in the ticket price.

Who Should Attend?

This training is for mental health professionals already working with couples or looking to add couples work to their practice.

Please note this workshop is not suitable for the general public.

Book Your Place

Tickets to this event cost £375, including lunch and refreshments throughout the day.

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Who is Terry Real?

Terry Real, LICSW, is an internationally recognized family therapist, bestselling author, and sought-after speaker. 

A former senior faculty member of the Family Institute of Cambridge in Massachusetts and a retired Clinical Fellow of the Meadows Institute in Arizona, Terry is renowned for his ability to save couples on the brink of divorce using the progressive approach he created, Relational Life Therapy. RLT equips people with the powerful relational skills they need to cultivate meaningful connections—to themselves, each other, and the planet as a whole.

Via his esteemed training school, the Relational Life Institute, Terry has trained thousands of mental health practitioners in his RLT method to date. 

His original insights on couples therapy, relationships, and men’s issues have been featured in outlets from Oprah and Vogue to The Today Show and CNN. His latest book is the New York Times bestseller, US: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship.  

How Observing Terry’s LIVE Sessions Has Helped Your Colleagues

Frequently Asked Questions

Monday 16th – Tuesday 17th September, 2024

9am – 5pm both days

The training is held at One Birdcage Walk, London, SW1H 9JJ.


Public Transport: Nearest tube stations are Westminster (Jubilee/District & Circle lines) and St. James’s Park (District & Circle lines), both just a 5-minute walk away.

Kindly arrive from 9:00am, using the main entrance. The registration desk will be easily visible, staffed by our friendly team who will assist with check-in and provide you with your name badge. Upon entry, you will be directed downstairs to the cloakroom to store any belongings and enjoy refreshments before the first talk scheduled to start at 09:30am. The lecture theatre will be open for seating at 09:15am. We kindly ask that guests refrain from occupying the back three rows to ensure optimal visibility and engagement for all attendees.

The event costs £375 to attend for the full two days and includes lunch and refreshments. 

Please note, guests are responsible for arranging their own accommodation and transport. 

No, this workshop is the perfect introduction to Terry and his Relational Life Therapy model. You will gain a solid understanding of how the model works and come away with fresh ideas, tools, and interventions to use in your own sessions. 

You can contact the Relational Life Institute by emailing support@terryreal.com.

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