Lesson 3: Watch Terry
Map a Real Couple’s Pattern
In this clip of a real therapy session, watch Terry quickly find the dysfunctional pattern underneath a couple’s conflict, then use that diagnosis to interrupt the cycle in real time.
This is RLT in action: name the pattern beneath the conflict so both partners can see it clearly.
In the RLT Certification, you’ll learn to diagnose what’s really driving the problem – and interrupt it without turning anyone into the villain.
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What Your Peers Are Saying
About RLT Certification
“My practice has grown exponentially since I completed my RLT certification.”
“RLT has changed my life personally and professionally. I did not think my partner and I would still be together. That’s not a small thing. And now, my practice has grown exponentially since I completed my RLT certification. It’s pretty difficult to see me, which I feel really grateful for.
Anybody can teach skills. What RLT therapists do is teach skills and then look at the part of you that doesn’t want to use them, or isn’t using them well, and why.”
“RLT has changed my life personally and professionally. I did not think my partner and I would still be together. That’s not a small thing. And now, my practice has grown exponentially since I completed my RLT certification. It’s pretty difficult to see me, which I feel really grateful for.
Anybody can teach skills. What RLT therapists do is teach skills and then look at the part of you that doesn’t want to use them, or isn’t using them well, and why.”
Arielle Hobbs
Counselor, LMHC, CST Saint Augustine, FL
"I don't think I would understand RLT the way I understand it if it wasn't for the practicums.”
“In the small group mentoring, getting feedback on what I presented, but also hearing their perspective on everyone's presentation was really powerful and helpful.
It was also just really lovely to feel a sense of community that we would establish in those small groups of working together all the time. It was great."
“In the small group mentoring, getting feedback on what I presented, but also hearing their perspective on everyone's presentation was really powerful and helpful.
It was also just really lovely to feel a sense of community that we would establish in those small groups of working together all the time. It was great."
Brenda Forster
Clinical Counselor, M.Ed., R.C.C. Kelowna, BC
“It changed my practice, my life – and I would highly recommend it.”
“I’m the first Pakistani to be certified as an RLT practitioner. I’m very proud of that. It changed me as a therapist and as a human being. I became more confident. I started working from a very honest, open space – joining from the truth, not being attached to the outcome. That was a moment of liberation.
It’s a soft, sweet, and simple methodology – and it gets to the root cause very quickly.”
“I’m the first Pakistani to be certified as an RLT practitioner. I’m very proud of that. It changed me as a therapist and as a human being. I became more confident. I started working from a very honest, open space – joining from the truth, not being attached to the outcome. That was a moment of liberation.
It’s a soft, sweet, and simple methodology – and it gets to the root cause very quickly.”
Nasim Mughal
Licensed Psychotherapist Karachi, Pakistan
"I feel great about the work I'm doing with couples.”
“For most of my couples, their course of therapy is between six months to two years. Whereas before some couples I would be seeing for like up to five years and still not really feeling like the strong tangible results were there."
“For most of my couples, their course of therapy is between six months to two years. Whereas before some couples I would be seeing for like up to five years and still not really feeling like the strong tangible results were there."
Rachel Keller
Clinical Social Worker, LCSW-C, CST Baltimore, MD
“My practice was already very successful, but since RLT certification, it's skyrocketed.”
“I had to close my practice to new clients. It's also allowed me to be more selective about the clients that I work with. And I'm re-energized by the work: I used to be worn out working with couples, but now I love it. Success and making a difference is a powerful antidote to burnout!”
“I had to close my practice to new clients. It's also allowed me to be more selective about the clients that I work with. And I'm re-energized by the work: I used to be worn out working with couples, but now I love it. Success and making a difference is a powerful antidote to burnout!”
Sig Taylor
MSW, RSW, RMFT Calgary, Alberta
“The practical and positive approach of RLT has helped my clients see change almost immediately.”
“By weaving past trauma and its impact on relationships and by building new skills together, my clients have expressed new deep and meaningful connections. RLT is not just a training program, it is a community that works in unity to offer ongoing support to therapists as well as clients.”
“By weaving past trauma and its impact on relationships and by building new skills together, my clients have expressed new deep and meaningful connections. RLT is not just a training program, it is a community that works in unity to offer ongoing support to therapists as well as clients.”
Clare Mézes
MSc, RP Toronto, Canada