– A powerful FREE training from leading couples therapist, speaker, and best-seeling author Terry Real

An Introduction to How Relational Life Therapy Can Transform Your Work With Couples

Discover how RLT is disrupting the world of couples therapy and how you can use it to save even the most broken relationships.

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Terry Real

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In this illuminating free training, Terry will lift the lid on how he created RLT and exactly how it works to deliver remarkable results in couples therapy. You’ll get to see a moving demonstration of him using RLT techniques to save a couple on the brink of divorce so you can see first-hand how profound the breakthroughs are.

What You'll Discover in the Free Training…

A radical, highly-effective approach to couples therapy

One that will disrupt your long-held beliefs from your therapy training. Forget being neutral and not taking on clients⁠—in RLT, we confront and are direct, with remarkable results.

A real-life demonstration of RLT in action

See Terry utilize RLT with a couple on the brink, conducting inner child work with one partner in the other’s presence. See how this encourages both partners to open their hearts and embrace vulnerability.

The powerful RLT tools to help you build trust and find leverage

Learn how tools including joining through the truth and relational mindfulness can help your clients trust you and open up quickly so they can understand how to heal and reconnect.

A whole new way of relating

RLT is more than a therapeutic model: it’s a movement, a way of life. Learn how you can apply it to improve your own relationships—with yourself, your loved ones, your clients, and the planet.

How you can start learning RLT TODAY

Terry will introduce the foundational training that will equip you with a solid understanding of RLT theory so you can begin using it with your own clients.

Who Is This Training For?

Watch the free training to discover how RLT can help you evolve your career.

About Terry Real

The creator of Relational Life Therapy, Terry Real is an internationally recognized marriage and family therapist, speaker, teacher, and best-selling author.

Terry founded the Relational Life Institute, offering workshops for couples, individuals, and parents around the country along with a professional training program for clinicians wanting to learn his RLT methodology. Drawing on three decades of experience, Terry knows how to lead couples on a step-by-step journey to greater intimacy—and greater personal fulfillment.

A senior faculty member of the Family Institute of Cambridge in Massachusetts and a retired Clinical Fellow of the Meadows Institute in Arizona, Terry has worked with thousands of individuals, couples, and fellow therapists. Terry’s ideas on men’s issues and couple’s therapy have been celebrated in venues from Good Morning America, The Today Show, and 20/20 to Oprah and The New York Times.

Leading Figures on Terry Real

“When I need advice, I call Terry Real. His decades of clinical experience, research, and wisdom are invaluable to my patients, colleagues, and friends.”

— Esther Perel

New York Times bestselling author and podcast host of Where Should We Begin

“Real’s approach teaches us how to step outside of the culture of individualism and embrace our interconnectedness. We can use it to heal a single relationship and to shift our collective culture.”

— Gwyneth Paltrow

founder and CEO of goop

“Terry helps reawaken couples who seem trapped in a long-term stalemate and allows them to move toward growth and fuller Selfhood.”

— Richard Schwartz

originator of Internal Family Systems

What Other Therapists Are Saying About RLT

“My work with Terry has greatly enriched me as a therapist. I’ve been in practice over 35 years and trained with many exceptional therapists. Training with Terry has pulled all this together and enabled my interventions to be more elegant and to the point, resulting in my client work being more focused and penetrating without sacrificing empathy or compassion”

— Yana Hoffman

“Terry’s work provided foundations of “telling the truth” to clients. I did it easily with individuals but stumbled with couples. Now I LOVE working with couples. It is now always profoundly moving & instructive.” 

— Jeanne O.

“After 25 years of working as a Psychotherapist and Marriage Counselor I was ready to “hang it all up.” I was more than burnt out. Now, 6 months later, I am reinvested in my work and enjoying it in a brand new way. Renewed energy and enthusiasm for my work has replaced the negativity I was experiencing. Thanks so much RLT!”

— Roseanna Zoubek

“After practicing RLT therapy for two years I am receiving numerous referrals for couples work from other therapists.  I have withdrawn from all insurance panels and my income is up!”

— R.G., Madison, CT

“Before learning Terry Real’s model I would work with couples to problem solve their dilemmas of the day.  I always had misgivings about the long-term potential of my work because although I was aware I was working mostly on the content level with my clients, I did not know how to move in deeper to address with them their relational processes.  Now, having Terry’s model for teaching clients healthy relating, I have guidelines to help them perform the modest miracle of personal transformation on a permanent process level, no matter what the content.  It’s really tremendous to be instrumental in people achieving that.”

— R.D., Massachusetts

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