The Couples Experiential as You’ve Never Seen It

Get an Inside Look at How Two Senior Therapists Use RLT in Their Couples Therapy Sessions

Join Cathy Hill and Julie Rudiger from the RLI faculty as they work LIVE with four couples over two days. Witness in real-time how they use RLT to expertly guide couples

🗓 Thursday & Friday, August 22–23, 2024, from 11am to 6pm ET 

Have You Ever Wondered if You Could Achieve the Same Results With RLT as Terry Real?

Then you don’t want to miss the upcoming two-day Couples Experiential.

For the first time ever, watch two senior RLT therapists, Cathy Hill and Julie Rudiger, work in tandem to guide four couples closer to connection. You’ll get a real-time, inside look at how they do it—and how you can do it, too.

Perhaps you’ve seen Terry’s powerful one-shot interventions before, and now you get to see how two highly experienced therapists apply RLT to their own styles of therapy.

You’ll leave having witnessed transformations that previously might have seemed impossible.

And, as a result of the Q&A, you’ll understand how it was able to happen, which will help you strengthen your own work with couples.

Whether you’re a seasoned couples therapist or new to RLT, don’t miss this unique opportunity to get an inside look at other therapist’s sessions to bring fresh perspectives to your own work.

How the Couples Experiential Works

The Couples Experiential takes place entirely online over Zoom for two full days.  There are two elements of the workshop:

Observation

This is where you will observe Cathy and Julie working in-depth with each of our four couples one at a time (spending up to two hours per couple). Then watch as they encourage the other couples to engage and provide feedback to the couple who has just done their work.

During this portion of the workshop, you will remain on mute and not participate in the sessions.

Q&A

Each day will have dedicated time for Q&A with Cathy & Julie (while the couples take a break) to discuss what happened in each session. This is where you can share your observations and ask them questions. They will be completely candid in disclosing the RLT tools they used and explaining why they took certain stances.

❗12 CE credits are available for an additional $40 if you attend the two days LIVE and in full.

What You’ll Learn

In this immersive two-day workshop, you will watch two senior RLT therapists interact and intervene LIVE with four couples to bring a fresh perspective to your own work.

You will:

Join Us for the Couples Experiential

Choose between a single payment or payment plan to register. 

2 x Monthly Payments

$159 

One-Time Payment

$300

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We’re confident you’ll love the Couples Experiential. However, if you’re not 100 percent satisfied with your purchase, simply contact us at support@terryreal.com within 48 hours of the first live call and we’ll give you a full refund, no questions asked.

Did you
know…

This course is part of the
RLT Certification program.

Who Is This For?

The Couples Experiential is for relationship professionals already working with couples or looking to add couples therapy to their practice, including: 

Please note: This training is not suitable for non-mental health professionals. This is a learning and development workshop designed for clinicians working with couples. If you are an individual or couple looking for help with your own relationship, we recommend Terry’s powerful online course for improving relationships, The Art of Relational Living.

What Your Colleagues Have to Say

Meet Your Teachers

Cathy Hill and Julie Rudiger are senior members of the RLI faculty, responsible for training professionals worldwide in Relational Life Therapy. 

Cathy Hill, PhD, Licensed Psychologist in British Columbia, Canada

I’ve been training with Terry since 2010 and learn more every time I teach the concepts. RLT is an incredibly rich and powerful mode of therapy and I’m proud to be involved with its expansion.

In order to help with that I’m also the Director of Research at the Relational Life Foundation, where we are working on getting RLT evidence-based. 

Julie Rudiger, LCSW, Private Practice, Denver, Co area

I have been a licensed therapist since 1993 and was introduced to Terry Real’s Relational Life Therapy in 2008. I became certified in 2010, and since then, my practice and personal life has transformed. I love the value of Full Respect Living, which is the tenet of RLT.

Teaching clients and therapists the model remains the central focus of my practice. I love the role of “coach” in teaching the skills. Most couples and individuals just need the education and tools to better care for themselves and their partners and families. I am also co-leader of the Relationship Boot Camp in Denver, whereby we help individuals and couples learn the skills in a 2 day intensive workshop.

Frequently Asked Questions

When is the Couples Experiential?

The Couples Experiential takes place on Thursday & Friday, August 22–23, 2024, from 11am to 6pm ET
both days.

The price for two days of observation is $300 per person if paid in full. You also have the option of a payment plan: two monthly payments of $159.
The workshop begins at 11am Eastern Time each day, and the couples sessions finish at 5pm. Cathy and Julie invite observers to remain with them during lunch and for another 45-60 minutes at the end for the Q&A. However, as this is a live workshop, timings may vary.
Yes—all sessions and the Q&As will be recorded and stored in the RLT Hub (which you will receive login details for when you register). You can watch the sessions back as many times as you like to fully absorb the learnings. However, we recommend attending both days live to get the most from the experience (and qualify for CE credits).

12 CE credits are available to therapists who attend live for an additional $40 fee. Please be aware this purchase is separate from your registration fee and will be offered only after the event. Find more information on CE credits here.

No, you will be muted during the couples sessions and group feedback. This will help you get the most out of your observation. You will be able to discuss the sessions at length and ask questions during the dedicated Q&A.

Yes—when you enroll in the RLT Certification (our deepest, richest couples therapy training), you unlock unlimited access to all Couples Experientials for the duration of your studies. Find more information on the RLT Certification here.

Relational Life Therapy (RLT) combines the most effective techniques from multiple therapies to create a state-of-the-art, integrated method to powerfully heal relationships. RLT breaks many of the rules of traditional therapy to go deep quickly and help clients make rapid and significant changes.

Using a range of powerful diagnostic and transformative tools, RLT helps people to first reconnect to themselves—their feelings, needs, and desires—to build a stronger, more intimate connection with their partner.

Get an inside look at how TWO senior therapists apply Relational Life Therapy techniques to their own therapeutic style to expertly guide couples closer to connection.  

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CEU REQUIREMENTS:

The Relational Life Institute is pleased to offer:

Working With Grandiosity

Relational Life Institute (RLI) has been approved by NBCC as an Approved Continuing Education Provider, ACEP No. 7495. Programs that do not qualify for NBCC credit are clearly identified. Relational Life Institute (RLI) is solely responsible for all aspects of the programs.

ACEP No. 7495

FORMAT: Five LIVE Online Sessions on Zoom, facilitated by Terry Real, LICSW

Continuing Ed credits offered:  7.5 credit hours for 5 Classes (no partial credit)

At the completion of this course, all participants will be invited by email to purchase the 7.5 CE credits for a $40 fee. To receive a certificate, you must attend the full course, pay the certificate fee, and complete our course Evaluation Form. There is no partial credit, attendance will be taken.

Content: Over 5 LIVE 90-minute classes with Terry Real, you will learn how to effectively address issues of grandiosity in their clients. You’ll discover a range of strategies and techniques to confront grandiose clients with the impact of their behaviors, build an alliance, motivate them to change, and guide them into connection—with themselves and those around them. 

Learning Objectives: At the completion of this course, participants can expect to:

  1. Identify what’s deficient in grandiose clients and understand how you supply it as the therapist.
  2. Identify strategies to confidently handle resistance, evasion, and verbal abuse.
  3. Understand how to reconnect grandiose clients to themselves and those around them.

Throughout the course, you’ll learn to: 

  • Understand the origins of grandiosity and why it isn’t always a defense against shame.
  • Identify techniques to find leverage to motivate grandiose clients to engage in the therapy.
  • Explain why taking sides is critical when working with grandiosity—and understand how to do it.

Target Audience: Social Workers, MFTs, Counselors, Substance Abuse Counselors, Nurses, and LMHCs, LMFT’s, Educators, Chemical Dependency Counselors 

Course Content Level: The course content is appropriate for Beginner level clinicians.

Cost:  $495 in full; or 3 payments of $175 each

Course Dates & Hours:    

  1.       Thursday, Oct 17 from 12-1:30pm ET
  2.       Wednesday, Oct 23 from 9:30am – 11:00am ET
  3.       Monday, Oct 28 from 2-3:30pm ET
  4.       Tuesday, Nov 5 from 12-1:30pm ET
  5.       Thursday, Nov 7 from 12pm to 1:30pm ET 

Cancelation Policy: You may request a refund up to 2 days after the first live session.

Please contact support@terryreal.com if you wish to cancel your purchase.

If you need special accommodations or have questions, please contact us. 

Registering for the course on the RLI website is required to receive a Continuing Ed Certificate.

FAQ’s

How do I receive the Zoom link?

The Zoom link is emailed to you from ZOOM when you register for the course. If you do not receive the link, please contact us at support@terryreal.com

Should the name you register with match your Zoom name?

Yes, your first and last both names must be entered on your registration and then displayed on the screen during all classes. Please do not use nicknames, or employee ID numbers or log into Zoom using a co-worker or family member’s Zoom Account as this will post you as ABSENT.

When will I get my certificate?

Certificates will be available in about ten business days of the event. Certificates will be emailed to the email address you used to register for the course.

Please contact our Support team if you have any questions support@terryreal.com 

Instructor’s Bios:

Terry Real, LICSW: Terry Real is the bestselling author of I Don’t Want to Talk About It: Overcoming the Secret Legacy of Male Depression, the straight-talking How Can I Get Through to You? Reconnecting Men and Women, The New Rules of Marriage: What You Need to Make Love Work and most recently Us: Getting Past You & Me to Build a More Loving Relationship just debuted in June 2022.

He founded the Relational Life Institute, offering workshops for couples, individuals, and parents as well as a professional training program for clinicians.   Terry’s work, with its rigorous commonsense approach, speaks to both men and women. A proponent of “full-throttle marriage,” Terry has been called “the most innovative voice in thinking about and treating men and their relationships in the world today.”

CONFLICT of Interest: There is no known conflict of interest or commercial support for this event.

Grievance Procedure:

If a student believes they have been discriminated against, they can submit a written complaint that includes their name, address, phone number, location, date, and a detailed description of the issue. If a student with a disability disagrees with the accommodation provided or has any other grievances, they can schedule a meeting to discuss and attempt to find a solution together. If the student is still not satisfied with the accommodation after further discussion, they can contact the Operations Director for the Relational Life Institute (RLI), Lisa Sullivan, via phone, email, or mail. If the grievance cannot be resolved, the complainant will be advised to contact the appropriate Ethics Committee or Licensing Board. The Operations Director will keep all grievances and their resolutions confidential in locked files. A copy of this Grievance Procedure is available upon request.

Contact information: ACEP Administrator & Operations Director for Relational Life Institute (RLI), Lisa Sullivan follows: 291 Nahanton Street, Newton, MA 02459; 617-861-3030 lisa@relationallife.com

 

Unfortunately, the August Couples Experiential has been canceled due to personal reasons.

CEU REQUIREMENTS:

The Relational Life Institute is pleased to offer:

Building Better Boundaries: How To Stay Connected and Protected in Your Relationships

Relational Life Institute (RLI) has been approved by NBCC as an Approved Continuing Education Provider, ACEP No. 7495. Programs that do not qualify for NBCC credit are clearly identified. Relational Life Institute (RLI) is solely responsible for all aspects of the programs. 

ACEP No. 7495

FORMAT: Five LIVE Online Sessions on Zoom, facilitated by Terry Real, LICSW

Continuing Ed credits offered:  7.5 hours for the 5 Classes with Terry Real, LICSW

Content: Over five live classes with Terry, you’ll embark on a deep exploration of psychological boundaries and how to build healthy boundaries in relationships. You will learn the different boundary profiles, including what it means to be boundaryless and walled off and how boundaries intersect with self-esteem to create repeated patterns in relationships. You’ll also discover practical strategies and exercises to support yourself—and your clients—in building better boundaries. In addition, there are three LIVE Q&A Bonus calls with Faculty to answer your questions.

Learning Objectives: At the completion of this course, participants can expect to:

  1. Describe the difference between internal and external boundaries.
  2. Identify the four boundary profiles on the Relationship Grid and two characteristics of each.
  3. Identify one exercise used by Terry to help clients establish healthy boundaries.
  4. Understand how self-esteem intersects with boundaries to create repeated cycles in relationships.

Throughout the course, you’ll learn: 

  • What psychological boundaries are, including the important distinction between boundaries and limits.
  • How relational trauma in childhood shapes our level of boundaries in adult relationships.
  • How the Relationship Grid can act as a tool to help your clients understand their boundary profile.
  • What the unholy triad of boundaryless is and the treatment for love dependence.
  • The two types of love avoidant and the different approaches to treating each. 

Target Audience: Social Workers, MFTs, Counselors, Substance Abuse Counselors, Nurses, and LMHCs, LMFT’s, Educators, Chemical Dependency Counselors 

Course Content Level: The course content is appropriate for Beginner level clinicians.

Cost:  $397 in full; or 3 payments of $147 each

CE Cost: $40 in addition to enrollment fee. Participants will receive and email from RLI once the course has ended which will include instructions to purchase the CEs and complete an Online Feedback Form. Once RLI has verified attendance you will be emailed your certificate in 10-14 days.

Course Dates & Hours:   

Class 1: Thursday, May 16, 1:30-3pm ET    

Class 2: Thursday, May 23, 1:30-3pm ET

Class 3: Thursday, May 30, 1:30-3pm ET

Class 4: Thursday, June 6, 1:30-3pm ET

Class 5: Thursday, June 13, 1:30-3pm ET

BONUS: Q+A calls with RLI Faculty: Kate Harris, PhD, Julie Rudiger, LCSW 

Call 1: Tuesday, May 28th, 12pm – 1 pm ET Kate Harris, PhD

Call 2: Monday, June 3rd 12 pm – 1 pm ET  Kate Harris, PhD & Julie Rudiger, LCSW 

Call 3: Tuesday, June 18th, 12 pm – 1 pm ET Kate Harris, PhD 

Cancelation Policy: You may request a refund up to 2 days after the first live session.

Please contact support@terryreal.com if you wish to cancel your purchase. 

Registering for the course on the RLI website for is required to receive a Continuing Ed Certificate.

FAQ’s

How do I receive the Zoom link? 

The Zoom link is emailed to you from ZOOM when you register for the course. If you do not receive the link, please contact us at support@terryreal.com

Should the name you register with match your Zoom name? 

Yes, your first and last both names must be entered on your registration and then displayed on the screen during all 8 classes. Please do not use nicknames, or employee ID numbers or log into Zoom using a co-worker or family member’s Zoom Account as this will post you as ABSENT.

When will I get my certificate? 

Certificates will be available within five to seven business days of the event. Certificates will be emailed to the email address you used to register for the course.

Please contact our Support team if you have any questions support@terryreal.com

Instructor’s Bio: Terry Real, LICSW

Terry Real is the bestselling author of I Don’t Want to Talk About It: Overcoming the Secret Legacy of Male Depression, the straight-talking How Can I Get Through to You? Reconnecting Men and Women, The New Rules of Marriage: What You Need to Make Love Work and most recently Us: Getting Past You & Me to Build a More Loving Relationship just debuted in June 2022.

He founded the Relational Life Institute, offering workshops for couples, individuals, and parents as well as a professional training program for clinicians.   Terry’s work, with its rigorous commonsense approach, speaks to both men and women. A proponent of “full-throttle marriage,” Terry has been called “the most innovative voice in thinking about and treating men and their relationships in the world today.”

Kate Harris, PhD: Licensed Clinical Psychologist, NH 1195 renewal biannually (2025/06/30)

I am a Clinical Psychologist and a certified Martha Beck, North Star Coach. In 2015, I watched Terry Real work with 5 couples and was committed to becoming an RLT therapist, in part, because RLT honors “the worth and dignity of all people” and aligns clearly with my values. Attending Terry’s Bootcamp in 2017 with my husband gave us tools that we use to stay close to each other and deepened our 32-year relationship. I became an RLT certified therapist in 2018 and I am excited to join the faculty and share what I’ve learned.

Julie Rudiger, MSW: Licensed Clinical Social Worker Colorado # 992023 renewal biennially (2025/8/31)

I have been a licensed therapist since 1993 and was introduced to Terry Real’s Relational Life Therapy in 2008. I became certified in 2010, and since then, my practice and personal life has transformed. I love the value of Full Respect Living, which is the tenant of RLT. Teaching clients and therapists the model remains the central focus of my practice. I love the role of “coach” in teaching the skills. Most couples and individuals just need the education and tools to better care for themselves and their partners and families. I am also co-leader of the Relationship Boot Camp in Denver, whereby we help individuals and couples learn the skills in a 2-day intensive workshop.

CONFLICT of Interest: There is no known conflict of interest or commercial support for this event.

Grievance Procedure: 

If a student believes they have been discriminated against, they can submit a written 

complaint that includes their name, address, phone number, location, date, and a 

detailed description of the issue. If a student with a disability disagrees with the 

accommodation provided or has any other grievances, they can schedule a meeting to 

discuss and attempt to find a solution together. If the student is still not satisfied with the 

accommodation after further discussion, they can contact the Operations Director for 

the Relational Life Institute (RLI), Lisa Sullivan, via phone, email, or mail. If the 

grievance cannot be resolved, the complainant will be advised to contact the 

appropriate Ethics Committee or Licensing Board. The Operations Director will keep all 

grievances and their resolutions confidential in locked files. A copy of this Grievance 

Procedure is available upon request. 

Contact information: ACEP Administrator & Operations Director for Relational Life Institute (RLI), Lisa Sullivan follows: 291 Nahanton Street, Newton, MA 02459; 617-861-3030 lisa@relationallife.com.