Expertly Transform Relationships and Build a Thriving Couples Therapy Practice with the RLT Certification

Discover how the deepest couples therapy training from leading therapist Terry Real will empower you to work confidently with even the most challenging cases.

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Deepen Your Expertise. Strengthen Client Outcomes.

Learn the practical strategies and interventions to help restore intimacy in even the most fractured relationships.

With the Relational Life Therapy Certification, you will learn how to:

We have different Certification pathways available depending on your interest and experience. For example, relationship coaches may choose to explore our Relational Coach certification while therapists and marriage counselors will benefit from our Couples Therapist certification.

 

Click “Receive More Information” below to receive the RLT Certification Guide with full details of the training, including the best pathway for you.

How Does the RLT Certification Work?

The RLT Certification is delivered entirely online via a blend of self-paced study, observation, and guided practice. 

Pillar 1: RLT Core Curriculum

Build your understanding of the RLT techniques and cultural context via 30 hours of on-demand video trainings from Terry Real, spread across three levels:

RLT Level 1

Establish a strong foundation in RLT, including how it differs from traditional therapy and the three RLT phases.

RLT Level 2

Learn how to move beyond the initial session and create the right course of therapy.

RLT Level 2

Establish a strong foundation in RLT, including how it differs from traditional therapy and the three RLT phases.

Pillar 2: Special Topic Courses

Short courses to explore specific topics in more detail and develop your own relational skills. Depending on which Certification you take, you will study up to 5, on topics including the neurobiology of RLT and developing your own relational skills. 

Pillar 3: Case Work with Terry Real

Observe Terry’s sessions with couples and individuals in real-time with live Q&A or expert commentary: 

Continuous Education Calls

Join Terry’s Real Life membership for the duration of your studies. The community meets 5 times per month (including 2 live calls with Terry). You will grow your skills, receive input on challenging cases, and access training on the business side of your practice.

Couples Experiential / Men’s Intensive Observation

Observe Terry live at work with five different couples in the Couples Experiential or with five individual men in his Men’s Experiential. Watch him utilize the RLT tools in real time and see the results first-hand. You also have Q&A time with Terry to ask questions, and share observations.

Pillar 4: LIVE Practice and Integration

Refine your skills working in small, supportive practice groups facilitated by the RLT faculty.

Practicums

Put theory into practice working in small groups of max. 10 students, guided by the RLT faculty. Each practicum contains live lectures, video clips of Terry working with couples, group discussions, and role plays to dive deeper into the content.

Small Group Mentoring

As you begin to incorporate your learnings into your daily work, you undertake small group mentoring (group size 5-7 students). Each session will focus on one student with space for case sharing, personal reflection, and questions from all participants.

Case Review

Case reviews are required for successful certification. You will submit recordings of your work using RLT and an accompanying case conceptualization which will be assessed by the RLT faculty.

For a full breakdown of the curriculum, click below to get your free copy of the RLT Certification Guide.

What Becoming an RLT Certified Therapist or Relational Coach Could Do For You…

Some of the benefits certified RLT practitioners report include:

Rapid results

RLT teaches you the skills to quickly diagnose the relational stance of each partner and set to work uncovering where it stems from. Character transformations can happen swiftly as you guide clients to understand their behaviors and what they need to change.

Enhanced offering

If you don’t currently work with couples, training in RLT opens up a whole new world. With RLT, you have the skills to work with even the most challenging couples, allowing you to open up your practice and serve more of the people who need you.

Greater confidence

RLT enables interventions to be more to the point, allowing your work to be more focused and penetrating without sacrificing compassion. When you know how to handle challenging situations and characters with grace, your confidence is amplified.

Renewed enthusiasm

When clients struggle to make progress, it can be exhausting and stressful. RLT acts as a reliable roadmap you can rely on to move clients forward, conserving your energy and renewing your enthusiasm for the work.

Increased referrals

RLT techniques gave Terry the reputation of the “turnaround guy”, able to help couples other therapists simply couldn’t. Many of our graduates now benefit from the same standing with their peers, receiving referrals from others who respect and trust their expertise.

Personal transformation

You can’t provide this work for clients without diving into your own relationality and growth. Bringing these skills to your personal relationships will allow you to hold yourself accountable, understand others’ perspectives, and cultivate deeper connections.

Who Should Join?

The RLT Certification is suitable for:

Other health professionals may also benefit. To see if it’s the right fit for you, click “Request Information,” and receive full details of the training.

Welcome to a Radical Model That’s Changing the Face of Couples Therapy

Relational Life Therapy (RLT) is an innovative approach to couples therapy that breaks many of the rules of traditional therapy. 

Developed by master couples therapist Terry Real, RLT incorporates perspectives and skills from systems therapy, feminist therapy, and coaching, together with current evidence-based modalities, to provide therapists with an innovative way to approach couples work that delivers rapid, dramatic, and lasting results.

RLT will disrupt your long-held beliefs on what couples therapy is and introduce you to a whole new perspective.

Here’s what you can expect from your work when you certify in RLT…

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    You’ll take sides

    Therapists typically remain neutral, but in RLT, we aren’t afraid to take sides. Not all relationships are 50/50. Some are 70/30. Some are 99/1. You’ll learn to explicitly side with the disempowered partner to restore balance in the relationship. 

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    You’ll heal trauma in the presence of the partner

    In traditional therapy, trauma work is done individually. But uncovering this type of vulnerability in the partner’s presence helps people go deeper. It also builds empathy as the other partner begins to better understand the behaviors they’ve been subject to for so long.

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    You’re equal to your clients

    No more pressure to be above your clients as an expert, nor are you simply a facilitator. In RLT, we’re right in the thick of it with our clients. You’ll learn to step out from behind the mask of professionalism and share your own experiences of relational living to motivate and build trust.

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    You’ll be compassionately direct

    In RLT, we’re upfront in telling clients the truth about the dysfunctional stances they have learned and how they are showing up in their relationships. You’ll learn to lovingly confront clients and tell them what to do in certain situations so they can have a corrective emotional experience with their partner.

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    You’ll teach skills

    The nurture that traditional therapy offers isn’t sufficient on its own to provoke lasting change. You’ll learn to focus on educating your clients with the essential skills to repair and sustain intimacy so they can continue cherishing their relationship for life.

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Complete the below form to get a free copy of the RLT Certification Guide with details on price, curriculum, and study paths. 

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Meet Your Teachers

You’ll receive the highest level of teaching, coaching, and guidance from Terry Real and his faculty of expert RLT therapists and educators.

Terry Real, LICSW, New York Times Bestselling Author, and the Founder of RLT

Terry Real is an internationally recognized family therapist, New York Times bestselling author, and sought-after speaker. 

A former senior faculty member of the Family Institute of Cambridge in Massachusetts and a retired Clinical Fellow of the Meadows Institute in Arizona, Terry is renowned for his ability to save couples on the brink of divorce using the progressive approach he created, Relational Life Therapy. RLT equips people with the powerful relational skills they need to cultivate meaningful connections—to themselves, each other, and the planet as a whole.

Via his esteemed training school, the Relational Life Institute, Terry has trained thousands of relationship professionals in his RLT method to date. 


His original insights on couples therapy, relationships, and men’s issues have been featured in outlets from Psychotherapy Networker and Forbes to The Today Show and The New York Times.

Cathy Hill, Licensed Psychologist in Private Practice, Vancouver, Canada

I began training in RLT in 2010 and after my first bootcamp experience was determined that Terry teach others how to do it. I hassled him until he let me help him set up advanced training for his senior therapists, which led eventually into the role of Director of Training. I am trained in the ‘scientist-practitioner’ model, and very keen on getting RLT ‘evidence-based,’ which requires excellence in training in order to translate into excellence in practice.

Anna Sterk, LMFT in Private Practice, St. Paul, Minnesota

Learning how to build and sustain healthy relationships has been the journey of Anna’s life, and not always an easy or straightforward path. It was life changing for Anna to build on the personal work she was doing when she started studying with Terry Real in 2012, and it is an honor for her to pass along what she has learned to clients and through teaching the relational skills in bootcamps, practicums, and mentoring.

Bonny E. Slim, LMFT in Private Practice, West Hartford, Connecticut

Bonny started training in RLT in 2012, and has participated in most of the courses that Terry has offered since then. Through co-facilitating several Relational Bootcamps, Bonny discovered how transformative the group experience can be. She anticipates the impact that the practicum groups have for participants will be equally valuable. Her favorite aspect of RLT is the awareness that practicing relational skills in our own lives is essential to be able to authentically share/teach these skills to others.

Desirae Ysasi, LPC-S in Private Practice, San Antonio, Texas

Desirae has been a licensed therapist since 2006 and a certified Relational Life Therapist since 2018. The road to RLT certification began as a desire to learn more about her passion for couples work and ended as a completely transformative experience for herself and her own relationship. Desirae is thrilled to enter into this relational revolution with her fellow faculty members bringing full-respect living to a whole new generation of therapists and clients.

Julie Rudiger, LCSW, Private Practice, Denver, Co area

Julie has been a licensed therapist since 1993 and was introduced to Terry Real’s Relational Life Therapy in 2008. She became certified in 2010, and since then, her practice and personal life has transformed. Julie loves the value of full respect living, which is the tenant of RLT. Teaching clients and therapists the model remains the central focus of her practice. She loves the role of “coach” in teaching the skills. Julie believes most couples and individuals just need the education and tools to better care for themselves and their partners and families. She is also co-leader of the Relationship Boot Camp in Denver, helping individuals and couples learn the skills in a two-day intensive workshop.

Kate Harris, PhD in Private Practice, Dover, New Hampshire and PSYPACT

Kate is a Clinical Psychologist and a certified Martha Beck, North Star Coach. In 2015, she watched Terry Real work with five couples and was committed to becoming an RLT therapist, in part, because RLT honors “the worth and dignity of all people” and aligns clearly with Kate’s values. Attending Terry’s Bootcamp in 2017 with her husband gave them tools that they use to stay close to each other and deepened their 32-year relationship. Kate became an RLT certified therapist in 2018 and is excited to join the faculty and share what she has learned.

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