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Six Weeks to Become the Partner You Know You Can Be – Especially When It's Hard
In the session, Terry and Alex showed you why all the inner work in the world doesn’t automatically land where it matters most – in the moments your partner sets you off.
Relational Reset is a six-week live course that closes that gap. Alex’s RESET framework gives you the regulation tools to stay grounded under pressure. Terry’s relational skills – Time Outs, the Feedback Wheel, repair – are what you finally get to use when you do.
This is the first time they’re teaching it together.
What You'll Walk Away With
Over six live 90-minute classes with Terry Real and Dr. Alex Howard, you’ll gain the self-regulating tools and relational skills to restore closeness – even in your toughest moments.
You’ll come away knowing how to:
1
Catch yourself before you act out.
Recognize the impulse rising in your body and interrupt the reaction before regret is necessary.
2
Understand your patterns in relationships.
Identify how you show up under stress – and what it costs you and your partner.
3
Stop fights in their tracks.
Recognize when you’re overwhelmed, and come back steady rather than fired up.
4
Ask for what you need and be heard.
Make requests that help your partner win, and invite the change you’ve been waiting for.
5
Repair disagreements without resentment.
Have hard conversations skillfully, and take in your partner’s efforts when they show up.
6
Invite more of what you want.
Change how you show up, and watch how your partner responds differently, more generously.
7
Make the changes stick.
Recognize old patterns when they return – and what to do to keep things from sliding back.
PLUS: Six LIVE Q&As with Terry and Alex
Whether single or partnered, get guidance on the relationship challenges you’re facing right now.
Join the 100,000+ people Terry Real has helped build extraordinary relationships – now combined with the regulation tools Alex Howard has used with 10,000+ clients across 50+ countries.
“This gave me what I would call the skills for daily living.
I saw a dramatic change – the capacity to interrupt myself … and know that’s all I’m responsible for. That just changed everything.
For me, because some of these things are so deeply rooted—I’m 62—I need practice and interaction. I was surprised at how emotional I got.
This gave me what I would call the skills for daily living … It was the homework that was going to create the personal transformation.”
Cathy Breunig for Terry,
Living Love Group Coaching participant
“A transformative and life-changing impact on me.
The RESET program has been a brilliant way for me to learn and put into practice a variety of tools/techniques to help with calming my nervous system. I have experienced a number of changes (including working on defending against my inner critic and opening up to my emotions) that have already started to make a transformative and life-changing impact on me.
With Alex’s skillful, supportive and enjoyable way of teaching, I would thoroughly recommend to others.”
Simon,
RESET program participant
Stay Steady When Your Partner Sets You Off – And Finally Break the Patterns Driving You Apart
Six weeks live with Terry Real and Dr. Alex Howard. Starts Wednesday, June 24 | 1pm ET / 6pm UK.
Includes lifetime access to all session recordings.
The Relational Reset · Starts June 24
Try the first class risk-free.
You’re protected by a 100% money-back guarantee. You have 48 hours after the first live class on June 24 to decide if the Relational Reset is for you. If by June 26 you decide it’s not right for you, email support@terryreal.com for a full refund. No questions asked.