LIVE Webinar – April 21 • 12:00 PM – 1:30 PM ET
You're Both Right. And You're Both Driving Each Other Crazy.
How to stop the good cop/bad cop cycle and actually parent as a team—without fixing yourself first.
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You walk into the room and see your partner do something to your kid
that makes you want to lose it. They’re being too soft. Too harsh. Too permissive. Too rigid. And the thought hits you—a thought you’d never say out loud:
What if they’re actually a bad parent?
What if I’m the bad parent?
Are we damaging our kids?
Then the argument happens.
You’re right. They’re wrong. Except… you know they love your kids as much as you do.
So why does it feel like you’re raising them completely differently?
Why does every parenting moment become a battle?
Why do you feel so alone in this, even though you’re supposed to be partnered?
You've caught yourself saying things you swore you'd never say.
You promised your kids would grow up differently. And here you are — snapping at your partner in front of them, yelling about rules and discipline, or softening when you swore you wouldn’t.
You’re trying so hard to be the “good” parent, and it’s exhausting.
The doubt creeps in:
“Are we failing them?” "Is there something wrong with us?" "Can we even fix this?"
What you’ll discover
Why you're both right
— and what you're each seeing that the other one is missing.
What's actually causing the fights
— hint: it's not what you think it is, and it's not about the kids.
Why being a "perfect parent" is the opposite of what your kids need
— and what actually matters more.
The one thing you can do differently starting tonight
— that doesn't require your partner to change first.
How 30% is enough
— the surprising truth about what secure kids actually require from their parents.
What If You Didn't Have to Figure This Out Alone?
In this free 90-minute training, you'll get:
1
A reframe of why you fight about parenting the way you do
2
Permission to stop trying to fix yourself or your partner
3
The one shift that changes everything—for both of you
Can’t attend live? You’ll get the replay link via email within 24 hours.
This is for you if...
You've said something to your kid you swore you'd never say—and your partner gives you that look.
You keep waiting for your partner to "get it" or change their parenting style, and nothing shifts.
You're not sure if you're a bad parent or if your partner is, and that thought won't leave you alone.
You love each other, but parenting together feels like you're on opposite teams.
You promised yourself your kids would grow up in a different kind of household than you did—and you're worried you're repeating the cycle.
“When you see your partner do to your kids what was done to you—and you’re ready to kill them—that’s not a parenting problem. That’s a signal. And it’s exactly what we need to talk about.”
— Terry Real, Founder of Relational Life Institute
Meet Your Teacher:
Terry Real
Terry Real is an internationally recognized family therapist, bestselling author, and the founder of the Relational Life Institute.
A former senior faculty member of the Family Institute of Cambridge, he has spent nearly four decades working with couples and families navigating the exact struggle you’re in right now — helping parents move from blame and exhaustion to partnership and permission, even in homes where things felt beyond repair.
Terry is also a father. He and his wife raised two sons — now men in their late thirties — and he’ll be the first to tell you he made every mistake in the book along the way.
He knows what it feels like to be the strict one and the soft one, to snap when you swore you wouldn’t, and to wonder if you’re getting it wrong. The difference is he came back, repaired, and learned from it — and that’s exactly what he teaches.
His work has been featured on
“This reframe changed how I work with couples in my practice. They stop blaming and start partnering almost immediately.”
— Dr. [Name]
Marriage & Family Therapist
“This reframe changed how I work with couples in my practice. They stop blaming and start partnering almost immediately.”
— Dr. [Name]
Marriage & Family Therapist
Testimonials
“We went into this thinking one of us was the problem. We came out realizing we were both seeing something real—and that changed everything about how we parent now.”
— Sarah M.
Parent of 2 • Toronto, ON
“We went into this thinking one of us was the problem. We came out realizing we were both seeing something real—and that changed everything about how we parent now.”
— Sarah M.
Parent of 2 • Toronto, ON
Got some questions? We can answer
Is this for me if my partner isn't willing to work on our relationship?
Yes. This training is designed for you to show up differently in your parenting, regardless of what your partner does. The reframe works even if they’re not in the room.
Will you tell me what's "wrong" with how my partner parents?
No. This isn’t about fixing anyone. It’s about understanding why you each parent the way you do, what you’re each protecting for your kids, and how to work with those differences instead of against them.
What if I have to miss the live training?
You’ll receive the replay within 24 hours of the webinar ending. You can watch it on your own time, and you’ll have access to it for 30 days.
Is this only for parents who are in conflict?
No. Parents who are mostly on the same page often get the most out of this, because they understand their team strength even better afterward. Partners who are struggling really benefit from the specific reframe.
Do I need to bring my partner?
No. But many parents choose to register together. If you’re attending solo, you’ll have plenty to work with on your own.
What if my kids have special needs or challenges?
The framework applies across all parenting scenarios. During the Q&A, Terry can speak to specific situations, but the core principles hold whether you’re parenting typical development or navigating additional challenges.
Is this about discipline, attachment, or some parenting methodology?
This is about understanding what drives you and your partner in parenting moments. It’s not a “method.” It’s a reframe that works alongside whatever parenting approach you’re already using.
How do I register? Do I need a credit card?
No credit card required. Just enter your email and you’ll get the Zoom link and all logistics before the training begins.
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Stop Waiting.
Start Partnering.
You don't have to figure this out alone. You don't have to be the "right" parent. And you don't have to wait for your partner to change first.
In 90 minutes
you’ll understand what’s actually happening in those moments when you want to lose it. And you’ll know exactly what to do differently.
No credit card. No risk. 100% free training.
Can’t attend live? Replay will be sent via email.
