For anyone who’s tired of repeating the same painful patterns

3 Shifts To Create Lasting Change in Your Relationship

A free, live class with senior RLT therapist and educator Kate Harris – including a simple tool you can use to reset and respond differently when emotions run high.

(if you can’t join live, please still register we’ll send you the replay)

“RLT has changed my life…

It has had such an impact on me personally. I did not think my partner and I would still be together. I’m shocked at where we are compared to where we were and my own personal growth in that. I just couldn’t be more grateful.”

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Arielle Hobbs

Saint Augustine, FL

If you’re longing for change in your relationship, but struggling to make it happen…

This class is for you.
If you feel like no matter how much you explore your attachment style, your love languages or how many communication frameworks you learn… when tensions flare, you just keep repeating the same old patterns:

And maybe, you’re tired of feeling like you’re the only one who wants to work on the relationship.

That’s a lonely place to be – especially when you’re trying and don’t feel like you’re getting anywhere.

But you’re not alone in this – and your relationship doesn’t have to stay stuck here, while you wait for your partner to change.

Join the free class to discover 3 shifts that will help you create meaningful change in your relationship.

“Intimacy isn’t something you have, it’s something you do. It’s a minute-by-minute practice of connecting to others through empathy, vulnerability, and accountability. And you can learn to do it better.”

Terry Real

You’ll learn how to:

Join the live class to discover the 3core shifts you can make that will profoundly transform your relationship – even if your partner isn’t doing the work alongside you.
Rooted in Relational Life Therapy and Terry Real’s 40 years of experience identifying the skills that make love work, this class focuses on changing how you show up.
And as you start making healthier choices, you’ll invite your partner to choose differently, too.
You’ll learn how to:

Move out of old protective patterns and stay centered…

Even when your partner is reactive, to stop arguments in their tracks.

Get unstuck from the “me vs. you” cycle that kills intimacy…

And experience less tension and more ease in how you communicate with your partner.

Stop feeling alone and make progress in your relationship…

Without waiting for your partner to become more aware, motivated, or willing.
We’ll also have Q&A at the end so you can get Kate’s advice on your specific challenges.

Plus, a practical tool you can use right away…

As soon as you register, you’ll receive a simple handout delivered straight to your inbox – a practical tool to help you pause and reset when things start to escalate.
Kate will walk you through how to use this practice live during the class, so you can respond in ways you actually feel good about the next time emotions run high.

Who is this for?

This live class is designed to help you proactively create the cherishing relationship you deserve by focusing on what you can do differently.

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If you want to discover the three shifts you can make to create meaningful, lasting change in your relationship, join us live.

Meet your teacher

Kate Harris

PhD, Senior RLT Faculty

Kate is a Clinical Psychologist and a Certified Martha Beck, North Star Coach.

Attending Terry’s Bootcamp in 2017 with her husband gave them the tools that they use to stay close to each other and deepened their 33-year marriage.

Trained directly by Terry Real, Kate became an RLT certified therapist in 2018 and is grateful to be able to help spread the skills of relational living. She remains inspired by the people who show up to learn how to live and love with deep respect to others and the world we share.

“In 2015, I watched Terry Real work with 5 couples and was committed to becoming an RLT therapist because RLT honors the worth and dignity of all people. I remain inspired by the people who show up to learn how to live and love with deep respect to others and the world we share.”

Kate Harris, PhD

How RLT has helped others

Join us to learn the 3 shifts that will transform your relationship – and get a practical tool delivered immediately to your inbox.

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